arm64 builds for CUDA

[mcvella]

Many are using this library on Nvidia Jetson/Orin devices, but there are no prebuilt wheels available for CUDA arm architectures.

Could support for automated builds of these wheels be added? Thanks!

[abetlen]

@mcvella I think so, while I don't want to expand the builds arbitrarily (big issue atm) it would be good to have them for popular devices if we can limit the CUDA / python versions as well. If we can collect some of that info here I'll see how we can expand the builds.