fix: gesture handler processing order and active/awaiting state

## Description
This PR:
1. Changes the order of processed gesture handler by sorting them, like [on Android](https://github.com/software-mansion/react-native-gesture-handler/blob/8a37a71d8bb9859b599351407e7b28a1ec98b4bf/android/src/main/java/com/swmansion/gesturehandler/core/GestureHandlerOrchestrator.kt#L231-L236).
2. Fixes the wrong active/awaiting state in certain cases by upgrading the GestureHandlerOrchestrator.ts implementation.

## Test plan
1. All test work as expected
2. Tested the repro available in the issue (or in linked discord message)

## Issue links
Closes #94

See merge request rnoh/react-native-harmony-gesture-handler!98

Author: pklatka

tester/harmony/gesture_handler/src/main/ets/core/GestureHandler.ts

@@ -712,6 +712,10 @@ export abstract class GestureHandler<TGestureConfig extends GestureConfig = Gest
     this.activationIndex = value
   }
 
+  getActivationIndex(): number {
+    return this.activationIndex
+  }
+
   setShouldResetProgress(value: boolean): void {
     this.shouldResetProgress = value;
   }