After asking a friend if I could vibe with them in a voice call during one of their streams, and subsequently being told no and that they would rather keep their call to those they find comfy. I’ve come to the realization that I don’t provide comfort to anyone…that asking if I could vibe in a call is me imposing myself onto others…so I’m now of the mindset that I should not ever ask if I could vibe in VC’s with people…that I should let those that wish to have me hang with them ask me instead…does this realization hurt? Yes it does…but there is nothing I can do about it now or in the future…