You don't always have to be the strong one
My mood is very much dependant on Daddys mood. If he is sad I am sad, if he is stressed I am stressed, Caretakers I think always feel like they have to be the ones to shoulder all the responsibility and be the ones who are strong and the unwavering force against the world protecting their littles, but...It's a partnership.
As an adult its just as much my responsiblity as his and it's okay for him to be going through stuff that he needs help with, its okay for him to break its okay for him to cry its okay for him to be the one who needs comforting.
Daddys going through some stuff right now. I cant really do that much to help but be there and go through it with him. we'll get through it together
As an adult its just as much my responsiblity as his and it's okay for him to be going through stuff that he needs help with, its okay for him to break its okay for him to cry its okay for him to be the one who needs comforting.
Daddys going through some stuff right now. I cant really do that much to help but be there and go through it with him. we'll get through it together
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I cannot express in words how much this resinates with me. I'll hold off on the wall of text explaining history and situations.
Just want you to know that there is some random person who rooting for you both what ever comes. Getting through things together, strife always builds a stronger bond.
Sending snugs.
Just want you to know that there is some random person who rooting for you both what ever comes. Getting through things together, strife always builds a stronger bond.
Sending snugs.
hey, not even in an abdl relationship and i am like he is right here with my wife. i DESPISE being weak around her even though i know i can be. i dont like her thinking there is something wrong with me or im really down in the dumps. and as that person who hides his feelings for the sake of others. it is hard as hell to break down that wall. if anything ive chipped a few holes in it so she can see through me when im really down. and god bless that woman for knowing exactly how to handle me when i am down.
I dont know your relationship, but I am really glad that my daddy trusts me enough to show me when he's struggling. We always want the very best for the people we care about the deepest and I'm really grateful that he feels safe enough that he can let his guard down around me, even if he does also sorta beat himself up about it too. Id rather know something is wrong than him hide things from me, because a problem shared is always better than a problem bottled up
our relationship is very healthy don't get me wrong. it is 100% because i bottle it up. but when she notices something is being bottled up, she finds a way to uncork that bottle and i spill everything. its the corner stone of any relationship. you have to trust your partner is there to help you always. even if you dont think you need it.
Plushy Hugs for aaallll the Daddys, Mommies, Babysitters and general caretakers of us big babies! You guys are awesome and loved! If you want, you can have some little time as well to just relax and not worry about grown up stuff. Your little ones will surely help you feel better!
Wow. Star. This pic is so heart warming. I hope mine can be cheered up the same way. You are amazing at making artwork that is relatable and emotionally supportive. Thank you for being able to make inspiring art for us all to see. It helps me at times seeing art like this. <3
That's true of a lot of little ones, Star; and while caretakers don't like to burden their little ones with their problems, sometimes... even little signs of affection like that, like sharing plushies... you know it's just their way of showing you that they care. And you can't help but smile as your little one does their best to cheer you up. Sharing plushies is a common one.
As a switch, I've been on both sides of this, and it really captures the moment well. That little smile on daddy's face says it all. And as a switch... I also recommend something for caretakers in these ABDL relationships; yeah, even actual little kids can tell when you're sad, yet alone adult-sized littles, so pretending nothing is wrong isn't gonna do much aside from make your little worry. It's okay to cry if you need to cry... if anyone is gonna understand that, it's them.
As a switch, I've been on both sides of this, and it really captures the moment well. That little smile on daddy's face says it all. And as a switch... I also recommend something for caretakers in these ABDL relationships; yeah, even actual little kids can tell when you're sad, yet alone adult-sized littles, so pretending nothing is wrong isn't gonna do much aside from make your little worry. It's okay to cry if you need to cry... if anyone is gonna understand that, it's them.
I agree with what you say star because I know myself there is a lot no one sees that I hardly even see myself of it all ive broken several times and ive done it without someone to ask if im okay no one ever really looks to see if someone is truly doing fine because everyone puts on the same brave faces and hides their pain and it brings a nice smile to my face to admit that some of my pain ive came to terms with and started to let go of and now get to bring back in the best way possible you all can make fun of me all you want because i lost my dearest treasure my 1996 Toyota Corolla Yentoka Mepren Yentorake and after a long hard year without her learning of her deadly crushing fate im glad to say i brought her home once more and im happy now that i get to heal some of my pain and bring her back so i say Tanaku Yentoka Yentorake i will see you soon
I can relate to just having a bunch of stuff going down on you all at once. I always try and be there for everyone around me and I rarely try and be helped, because I'm stubborn and hate showing weakness, but... It always feels good when people are there to try and help.
I hope he gets better. As long as you're there, I know things will be okay.
I hope he gets better. As long as you're there, I know things will be okay.
I don't know what's hitting me harder: the fact that I relate very strongly to what you wrote in the description, or the fact that I have done the exact thing Star did her Daddy with our own Mommy.
The art is super cute. As for what you and Daddy are going through... you're a good girl, and you're right, you'll get through it together. Sending all my love to both of you. <3
The art is super cute. As for what you and Daddy are going through... you're a good girl, and you're right, you'll get through it together. Sending all my love to both of you. <3
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