Pajama

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
sapphireh3art
clownluvrcommunist

one of the most important skills that trans women can develop, especially for those of us who indulge in t4c slop, is discerning which cis women are actually into us as women, versus the much largy body of cis women who are only "into" us as transmisogynized, fetishized, and masculinized (or, at "best", sissified) sex objects.

clownluvrcommunist

this of course also relates to my longstanding position that cis women who want to, for whatever reason, become intimiate with trans women should be expected to spend time in transfeminist spaces and learn transfeminist theory. if you say you like us but wont put in the effort to learn the intricacies of the specific forms of oppression which we face, then you dont actually like us.

like 95% percent of the c4t lesbian writing on this site by cis women is basically indistinguishable from like futadom hentai captions
technicoloryuri
fanboyistransboy

The reason why I stress giving transfems grace and benefits of doubt is because I think one of the biggest privileges that I noticed I have that transfems do not is that people seem to take the things I say in much better faith than other transfeminists. Even though I’m saying the same stuff.

Even when someone was stalking my blog and whispering to my partner about how I was problematic, it was more about how I reblogged from ISFF and PBD, Rather than the fact I explicitly spoke in my own posts the same transfeminist talking points.

This is also why I am trying to speak openly about tone policing. Because even though I do try and speak empathically, most of these girls are speaking just as sweetly as me and you are hounding them because of it.