To tell the truth, I was so agitated by this reblog that I needed to take a walk to calm myself, and then several more hours to draft a proper response. I'm not willing to discuss this further, and if you reply again to push this point, I will simply block you.
While I understand your intentions to defend Millie, and I send my strength to her because surgery and the death of a loved one are both extremely stressful situations to endure, and I acknowledge I should not have rolled my eyes and downplayed her struggles, I believe I am justified in expressing my disappointment and disgust with how she handled the situation. Like Millie, who is a real human being who does not deserve to be harassed, Star is a real human being who was a victim of Noor's and can see the words she’s typing.
It’s scary to be hounded, I understand that personally, but when people are asking if a groomer's ex-friend— who kept said groomer’s name on their profile long after being told about it—they are not being drama vultures needlessly poke their noses into a place they don’t belong. They are concerned fans seeing if they’re supporting someone who they believe to still be friends with a groomer. Again, it’s scary, it’s stressful, but that doesn’t excuse using the term "touching grass” when we’re discussing child grooming. This is serious.
Absolutely no one is asking for some herculean effort on her part. Even if she doesn’t want to take the precious seconds out of her time linking the doc, she still could have left it at “I wasn’t aware of the grooming situation. I’m not friends with Noor. I’m sorry for the victim. Please stop messaging me about it.” It’s four little sentences. Again, I understand she’s stressed and may have unintentionally come off as insensitive, but intention does not negate impact.
Also, it is not ‘months’ later. It’s been a month later, two at the very most. This isn't some old drama we're dragging out for silly fun, and I don't think "hey, maybe acknowledge and express your sympathy for the victim and what they’re going through" is too much to ask for. While I don't intend to, nor do I encourage anyone, to press Millie on the subject further, nor do I care if she writes a second statement apologizing for the first, I still find her first response insensitive, and I have the right to discuss it publicly on my own account.