you cannot believe in transandrophobia and also believe in trans solidarity. they are mutually exclusive because the concept of transandrophobia is a massive misunderstanding of what transmisogyny is. people who believe transandrophobia isnt real do not, in fact, believe trans men dont experience transphobia or that they experience a less intense version of transphobia compared to trans women. its just that the concept of transandrophobia is based on a reactionary misunderstanding of transmisogyny as a concept
imagine if white feminists saw black feminists talking about misogynoir, didnt read up on sources discussing misogynoir, decided misogynoir is just a label for misogyny thats specifically directed at black women, and coined the terms "blancsogyny" and later "whitesogyny" to describe misogyny specifically directed at white women
and when black feminists take issue with the term whitesogyny and correctly claim its a reactionary misunderstanding of misogynoir, those white feminists reply "no its definitely real. when someone accuses me of using white women tears to win an argument or makes fun of white women buying pumpkin spice lattes that's whitesogyny"
and when pressed for examples of what whitesogyny looks like as actual expressions of oppression that uniquely result from the intersection of being white and being a woman, the white feminists claiming that whitesogyny is real say things like "being denied access to abortions" or "not being taken seriously by doctors" or "having my work experience undermined by men who dont work in the same field as i do" or "not being paid as much as the men i work with", which are presented by the people claiming whitesogyny is real as if women who are not white dont experience any of those things
trans men and transmasculine people experience transphobia. they dont experience transmisandry or transandrophobia because being a man/being masculine is not an axis of oppression. being a man or being masculine can shape how you are oppressed, but that doesn't make it an axis of oppression itself
to date no examples i have ever been given as proof that transandrophobia exists have all been things experienced by cafab people who arent transmasc and/or by transfeminine people. the non-exhaustive list of things people have told me are exclusively transmasculine problems include corrective rape, denial of medical care, forced pregnancy, and murder
if you sincerely believe trans men and transmasculine people are the exclusive or major group of trans people who experience these things, i don't expect you to get this far without blocking me but if you have i implore you to read transfeminist sources. read the whipping girl at the very least
