Wow, A Friend!

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Hello, my friend!

I go by Maia or Daisy on the internet. I’m a para-educator who is autistic and a cane user! I mostly use this blog for fun and to post about disability stuff and things that make me happy.

I was born in the USA, but I grew up in Ukraine. I don’t post much news, it affects me very badly, but I like posting things about Ukrainian culture and my experience! It’s very important to me. I speak Ukrainian and would be happy to speak it with anyone who would like to! I didn’t get to engage with the Ukrainian queer community much growing up, так якщо ви частина Українська ЛГБТ-спільнота , будь ласка, не соромтеся писати мені. Будемо друзями!

I’m also have some form of plurality, so headmates will sometimes post. It’s mostly me, host, posting on here, but some of the other folks have expressed interest in goofing off on the internet and the system as a whole has decided that it’s safe to do so. If there’s no sign-off, it’s safe to assume it’s host!

My Sideblogs

@nonbinary-niki-kinnie is my dsmp blog, host shares it with Techno, one of my headmates.

@kalina-tabrys-blast-radius is for Dragon Age, which is my fiance’s special interest. I like my fiance.

@nonbinary-sam-winchester is for Supernatural. I know, in the year of our Lord etc.

@golden-retriever-gideon is my Locked Tomb blog and I’m ALWAYS on there with correct takes.

@big-brother-parker is where Parker, one of my headmates, hangs out and goofs off. I’ve been wanting to interact with him from my main so that’s why I’m tagging.

And finally, @housebutcharchives is my gender diary, kinda. I post gender labels I relate to and ramble about why. I like that blog, I think it’s very cozy.

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autisticslp
silvaurum

"i would kill a pedophile to protect my child" ok but would you teach your child how to say no? even to adults? even to adults you like? would you teach your child the words "penis" and "vulva" and then use them? would you let them ask questions about their body? would you answer them honestly? would you learn how to cope with your feelings when you talk about human bodies, so they don't feel ashamed? would you set a positive example for how you talk about your body? would you tell your child they don't have to hug or kiss anyone? would you tell your family the same? would you stand by them when they refuse to hug someone? even someone you know has never done anything to hurt them? would you let your child avoid food they don't like? would you let you child avoid people they don't like? would you believe them? would you sit in the discomfort of not knowing all the answers and not take it out on them? would you love your child the same if someone did hurt them? would you make them feel valued just as they are? would you let them talk to doctors or nurses in private? would you let them express their feelings? would you show interest in their life? would you let your child say no to you? would you help your child feel safe coming to you when they make a mistake? would you apologize to your child? would you believe them? would you put aside your anger to focus on what would make your child feel safe and loved? would you put your ego aside for your child? would you take your child's concerns seriously? would you listen to your child? would you believe them?

another example of how certain people want to protect the children with violent fantasies theyll never jave to actually enact but they dont want to protect their children by empowering them and upholding their autonomy bc children are objects to them precious objects but objects nontheless tw csa mention tw csa
count-woe-laf
libraford

The people who police your gender will police your gender even if you're cis.

Eat them.

libraford

"OH those body builder women with pancake breasts arent-" eat them.

"This woman has a beard, thats not-" eat them.

"That man has a baby face, that's not" - eat them with barbecue sauce.

Eat them. You will never be gender enough for their definition of gender. Eat them.

symbiotic-slime

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nicolethered

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:) -finn