Alyssa Milano attends a protest against Donald Trump's plans to reinstate a ban on transgender individuals serving in the U.S. military, in New York City, July 26, 2017 (Carlo Allegri / Reuters) About 10 years ago, after I’d graduated college but when I was still waitressing full-time, I attended an empowerment seminar. It was the kind of nebulous weekend-long event sold as helping people discover

