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you know what the sad thing is? they wrote this finale for the GA. they had multiple chatgpt AND reddit tabs open on their laptops. even after saying they weren’t going to listen to reddit.

and the GA? they’ll forget about the show. they’ll rewatch it once in a while. get excited for a spin-off, before saying it’s reheating the original show’s nachos and move on.

but you know who does keep fandoms alive? the ones that invests time, money, art and passion into it? predominantly their lgbtq+ fans.

and the worst thing is, a lot of the GA came around in the end. after vol1, everyone was routing for it. people even considered the finale byler endgame. people were cheering for it at jimmy fallon. we still have this fandom space, but i will NOT be supporting their other projects after the blatant queerbaiting.

this will go down as a generational fumble. (i’m still half on the conformitygate bus someone kick me off)

2026

  • FUCK HARD
  • FUCK FAST
  • FUCK BADLY
  • NEVER USE GENERATIVE AI
  • CREATE JOY
  • MUSIC ALWAYS
  • PSPSPSPS AT KITTIES ON THE STREET
  • YUMMY SOUP
  • go see the doctor about that thing
  • BE TRANSGENDER
  • KISS YOUR FRIENDS
  • EAT CHEESE
  • NEVER KILL YOURSELF
  • THRIVE

I feel so insane about ai. I've had face-to-face conversations with people who use it for therapy, who use it to calculate the safety of pill interactions, who use it for all their emails and grant applications and legal documents and academic papers and finance sheets and for every single question they have about the world, and if you tell them about the ecological costs they just laugh and say "I guess I've used a lot of water." and I've been in multiple gatherings of 10+ people where I'm THE ONLY PERSON who doesn't use chatgpt. it's turning me into a ranting raving pariah, because how don't you people see??? why don't you understand??????? this bullshit didn't exist five years ago, you absolutely do not need it, and it is destroying everything

this mike wheeler is not the same mike wheeler that recognized the sound of will’s breathing through a walkie talkie, stood up to his bully in front of the whole school after he mocked will’s death, who wouldn’t leave will’s side all of season 2, and who told will meeting him was the best thing he’s ever done

for being a show with "barely any mistakes" and where "everything is intentional" i saw a lot of fucking mistakes and coincidences

so..! to recap !!!!

  • we don't know why will was taken specifically
  • hopper and joyce just happened to conveniently forget going to school with henry
  • the painting lie hasn't been addressed
  • we don't know why el recognized will in season 1 without having ever seen him before
  • we don't know who opened the door the night will was taken
  • mike and will's colors just HAPPEN to be blue and yellow and the cast, crew, and WRITERS THEMSELVES telling us to "pay attention to detail" was deadass just generational queerbait
  • after everything, mike STILL couldn't say i love you to eleven
  • patty newby is non-existent and creelby just happens to parallel byler for literally no reason 🩷
  • will was about to FORGIVE henry.
  • the duffers genuinely forgot their OWN MAIN CHARACTERS BIRTHDAY AND AGE MULTIPLE TIMES
  • the russian involvement in s3 and s4 was never explained so it was prob just capitalist propaganda except they don't want us to realize that so they gave jonathan an entire anti-capitalist film storyline for the sake of "screwing conformity" i guess
  • ohhh but! critiquing society???? fuck that! because they also didn't show us vickie in the epilogue at all, giving her and robin a completely ambiguous ending in which 90% of the fandom believe they broke up off-screen!!!!!!! A+ for representation !!!!!!
  • not only that, but will doesn't even have a CONFIRMED epilogue boyfriend. that is full well a cute lil headcanon that MIKE has for him.
  • terry ives, lonnie, enzo, max's mom, suzie, argyle, dr kay, the turnbow family, the school counselor with the clock necklace, and dr owens just vanished into thin air, ALONG WITH ALL THE DANGERS OF THE UPSIDE DOWN???? where were the demodogs, the demogorgons, the demobats????
  • max's letters were just completely insignificant and had no reason to be mentioned again i guess
  • november 6 just happened to be a funny coincidence
  • they ALSO happened to forget that nancy had a vision of mike being killed by vecna in s4 bc that boy wasn't even remotely in danger at all while every other wheeler was put through hell
  • dr brenner's obsession and fascination with the upside down and abyss stemming from how his father was involved in project rainbow was also not addressed
  • not to mention that the dude is literally horrendous at drawing animals but when it comes to the flipping hexcore he's da vinci
  • melvalds, the general store, just happens to sell milkshakes
  • will adores getting lost in the woods because that's such a fun activity for him
  • henry just gave holly her favorite song because he was feeling kind
  • they never actually defeated the mind flayer !!!! which is wonderful
  • we actually never find out whether or not will lost his powers
  • el's water tank in the upside down being completely full although there has literally NEVER been water in the upside down before
  • mike is somehow the only one who has ever understood el even though she was 10x happier with max. could they not have just admitted that they made the elmax reunion so incredibly lackluster because they refused to let ANY gay ships win regardless of how much chance they had of being canon?
  • the 'lovebirds' parallel between jonathan + steve and mike + eleven??? what was that even for
  • all the dick jokes, mike listening the a band called the BUTTHOLE SURFERS, the camera panning to mike 7000 times during will's coming out scene, mike not being able to touch will, all just happened to be fun coincidences
  • not only that, but the mike-will-eleven and nancy-jonathan-steve love triangles were resolved by none of the couples working out! wow.

they really just made us wait 3 whole years for something BEYOND mid.

This would have had me crucified on tumblr 10 years ago but maybe we are ready for this conversation now:

If you are a socially anxious person, you have to socialize. Your panic/anxiety attacks will only get worse and trigger more frequently if you constantly avoid contact with The Public. Not saying that you need to be a social butterfly- but there is a genuine problem with not being able to order your own meal at a restaurant. And it cannot be solved by always having someone else do it for you.

This is a PSA to about 3/4s of the Portland Youth populace

everyone who reblogs this and is like "I ordered my own tea this week" or "I only barfed once when I had to give a presentation'- you are doing amazing sweetie. Have patience with yourself, you are relearning a skill so difficult that people get 4 year degrees to do it professionally.

did you know if you are good enough at time management you can sleep 17 hours straight and not sleep at all the next night? the reviews are coming in, critics are raving: "this is not a good idea" and "please go to bed" "wow those are some eye bags, are you sick?"

no matter how normalised it gets I will die on the hill that it is rude to record strangers in public without their consent

We're so messy and complicated but I think effortless is overrated find my way to you from miles apart take me back to where the feeling starts strung along by the ties that bind me walk in sync without a care for timing trace the arteries to find my heart promise me that you will do no harm

lol I am in such a stressed-out blind rage today from insurance bullshit that I wrote up a glossary of health insurance terms (things like deductibles, premiums, and copays) because all the free guides online are unnecessarily complicated and the only way you can squeeze a dime out of these bullshit companies is to understand their overly-complicated policies. give em hell

This is a GREAT guide folks - it’s simple, straightforward, and deals well with the overly complicated alphabet soup of medical insurance. Knowing this stuff can prove REALLY helpful, and the examples used are a great resource. 

discord collecting data on your private messages for a yearly recap isn't good.

turn all this off immediately.

your private conversations are not truly private on discord and you should assume that any and all messages you send can be monitored or turned over to any police or government force. use signal if you need to for protected chats.

WE'RE SO MESSY AND COMPLICATED

BUT I THINK EFFORTLESS IS OVERRATED

TRACE THE ARTERIES TO FIND MY HEART

AND PROMISE ME THAT YOU WILL DO NO HARM

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