“public schooling in america is by and large not designed for ideal learning and has a lot of fucked up incentives and structures that encourage mistreatment of children” ✅
“it would be preferable to have no structure or standardization and just go by vibes” ❌
“education itself is the problem, knowledge is fake, math and writing are unimportant, and ignorance is wisdom” ❌❌❌
want possessive sex. not the type where you’re trying to put me in my place, but rather the reassuring kind. telling me i’m yours in a sweet tone that blurs to condescending when you see how easily i fall apart from your words. your hand barley putting pressure around my throat while you promise i’m the only one you need. eyes rolling back while i squeeze around you and pant out desperate begs against your mouth to never stop, needing you to keep going. digging my nails into your arms, stabilizing myself on my grasp and from the thought of never letting you go. losing all coherence when you start praising me in my ear, moaning how perfect i feel, how pathetic my whines are when you call me yours. and as soon as my begs start spilling for permission to cum, you tell me to say it out loud. to say i’m yours, over and over despite my words blending together with broken moans, raspy whines, and shaky sobs. fucking me as if our lives depended on it and making sure that when i cum, i know im yours. only yours.
My absolute favourite comic journal by Stevenson. Made me cry my eyes out. Even when I can’t articulate it, it gets to the core of what I think love is.
I wanna talk about how fucking hard it is to be a woman in trades. We have to work 10x harder than men to receive any recognition. We get passed up promotions for mediocre men that we can run laps around. People tell us we are incapable. People talk shit behind our back. People are really fucking weird. You get clients and then they text you asking for sex so you have to block them and hope they don’t start stalking you because you said no. People tell you that you’re too pretty to be doing a hard job. (Sir I look like a raging homosexual dyke???) God forbid you are in leadership because all of the men believe you are privileged but you aren’t and they won’t fucking listen to a single thing you say. You have to repeat what you say 10x because apparently all the words that come out of your mouth make no sense because you aren’t a man.
Now that we’ve put that on the floor let’s add to it. Being a queer gender non conforming masculine leaning person…. For some fucking reason we are like candy to crusty ass old men. Forget having clients and masculine privileges because you still get berated and straight men keep trying to get you to have sexual favors with them. You regularly hear men say “I can change that” when you tell them you are a lesbian. People act like they can be an asshole because you are queer so you’re less than. And your masculinity is seen as less than because you aren’t a “default male” and expect to get ghosted from every single job you apply for or interview with because even though you have a great skill set they don’t want “one of them queers” in their shop. You get judged heavily during interviews and either they are being fucking creeps or are mad that you aren’t wearing a dress like a “traditional woman”. People think you are worth even less space and money because you’re not just a woman but you are not a traditionally feminine woman so you are basically considered worthless if they don’t want to fuck you. Yet they will say to your face if given the chance they would. So yea tell me again how being a queer masculine person means your have more privilege? I’ve been kicked out of bathrooms and been harassed for being gender nonconforming. The day they outlaw being queer is the day that those of us who don’t outwardly conform to traditional gender roles will be beaten and murdered on the streets. We already are but y'all don’t hear it. Society hates feminity but it’s more likely to reward gender conformity. But a lot of y'all aren’t ready for that conversation. I’m sure if y'all asked lesbians of the past how butches were treated you’d sober up. Transwomen, transmen and gender nonconforming individuals have always been the first to get hurt so some of y'all better stop talking about shit that you don’t know. And as always my favorite thing to say to misinformed people is shut up and sit the fuck down. Don’t speak if you haven’t learn shit from the source.
Its been brought to my attention I shouldn’t leave these tags in the notes.I forgot about this post I made a while back and then I saw a notification this morning. Y'all it’s been a hell of a thing and I litterly had a sit-down conversation with my boss where I told him anywhere new I go I have to work 10x harder to earn the same respect a new guy gets only for him to say “well that’s what you perceive but it may not be like that” and then me telling him about how I’ve litterly been cussed at and threatened to my face before and him getting red faced because of how stupid it was of him to try to downplay that Im not talking out of my ass and I’m serious. I don’t identify as a woman but God damn do I face the same fucking bulshit that women do because people don’t care who you are if you aren’t a cis straight white man they will treat you like you are making up your own oppression. Going back to these tags here I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been pushed out of “women’s” spaces and how I’ve been told to my own face that I’m making it up even from people you would think would stand in solidarity. Genuinely some of y'all need to check your privilege because you sound and act just like a cis straight white man when someone is trying to educate you on their oppression. I imagine the anger and frustration is far greater from a more intersectional lens that I don’t experience. Do better because y'all are kicking on queer masculinity and gender non-conforming people and throwing them under the bus. I’m tired of seeing all the hate. Just because you face a form of oppression doesn’t mean someone on the opposite side of the spectrum doesn’t face something similar. This isn’t the oppression Olympics and we need to stop acting like it is. We need to stop telling people what they do and don’t experience when we aren’t the ones living in their shoes. Genuinely check yourself and the way you speak and act.
Ok now apply racism I said to everything here. Why is it that so many of you can’t listen to black trans men or black trans women? How hard is it for you to understand the validity of someone’s oppression? Is your whiteness more important than someone’s lived experiences? Or tell me are you just racist? Unpack that shit and shut up. I’m so fucking sick of so many people speaking over BIPOC voices. We have BIPOC people being murdered out here on the streets and you’re more concerned that your oppression is “the only and most unique level of oppression” so therefore you have it worst? Do you understand how much you sound like a child throwing a temper tantrum? Just because you are oppressed in one way doesn’t erase the fact that there are multiplely marginalized individuals that you are actively harming by talking over and saying that their lived experiences are invalid. Get over yourself.
