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BlossPoss

@blossposs

kinda like a cloud i was up, way up in the sky i was feeling some feelings you wouldn't believe 26 F she/her

absolutely kills me that newly hatched scorpions are called scorplings btw. thats baby........

you have got to be kidding me.......... thats baby.................

Remember to eat so you have the energy and strength to fight the patriarchy and fascism.

this is so true. also get some exercise if you can, even a small amount will help you feel more energetic in general.

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evil rant incoming:

i just greatly despise white queers as a whole they are so fucking selfish, racist, annoying, and don't care about anyone that doesn't match their features or skintone or any race they can't fetishize to a dehumanizing extent.

I genuinely fucking wish you crackers would stop being selfish. this isn't me wanting white genocide I just want white queer people to stop using black and brown people as props and tools while just treating us like lesser people and not caring because we don't match your aesthetics. fuck you. if this rant makes you uncomfortable you can always unfollow lol

i think it's important for white queers to hear this and understand that these words shouldn't be said if you actually cared about making your spaces about equality or acceptance.

y'know what fuck you I'm making this rebloggable despite it opening up Pandora's box to the worst responses ever because like, I don't like making myself smaller for people who are so full of themselves.

the haters will spam you with racist bullshit even when you try to be nice, might as well get the catharsis of being abrasive and hateful.

however its cringe as fuck seeing white people committing ritual suicide in the tags any time a poc they like says something negative about white people.

Why do white people need to do anything differently about kinks with racialized histories? If you don't feel comfortable calling a white person master or being whipped by one, shouldn't you just tell them you don't want these things when you are discussing kinks and limits? It seems like proper communication resolves all the issues involved here.

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You are 18 so I’m going to answer this in good faith.

Unless you are racist and plan to never date anyone non-white, or are monogamously partnered to one person your entire adult life, if you do not consider the boundaries and histories of your kinks even if you still perform them, you WILL eventually at best say something horrifically offensive to a partner/potential partner without their consent, or potentially harm them worse with unconsidered bigotry.

To give a non-racial example that happens to me a lot, I’m going to mention Caning. I’m disabled, and use a cane any time I’m not at home as a mobility device critical to my ability to exist. I’ve had several potential partners, and far too fucking many strangers, ask me some variation of “oh it would be so hot if you caned me with that, will you?”

There is nothing wrong with caning as a form of impact play. However, this always, ALWAYS comes off as fetishization of my disability. There are ways to ask/talk about mobility devices being used in kink that aren’t ablest or nonconsensualy fetishizing! But they require the person not using a mobility device to have actually thought about the ways that bigotry could inform their kink and how to ask without being ableist.

It’s similar with race. To continue the maid fetish example, there are colonized countries like the Philippines whose main export is their people into service industry outside of their home country, especially into domestic work. Many of these jobs are modern day slavery, and people in diaspora may have people in their direct families affected by this. To bring this up to them without their consent due to your own ignorance would be you asking if you can fetishize the suffering of their people, even if you weren’t doing it with intent to harm. Filipinas in particular are often flooded with ads/content marketed towards whites specifically trying to promote the enslavement/kidnapping/assault of Filipinas while trying to interact with their identity both within and without nsfw spaces. (As a note, I am not Filipina, this was written with input from my Filipina friend)

So yes, you do gotta know what’s going on with your kinks and ways you interact with them even if you’re white - you don’t have to stop fuckin doing them, you just have to know how to mitigate potential harm, which is a bare fuckin minimum for participating in a kink with other people.

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My mother, Filipina, was the only Asian woman in a many-mile radius in 90's backwoods Tennessee, and she was only there because she'd been strongarmed* into a teen marriage with a white husband who was even younger than her—

*I am not yet enough at peace with my memories to use a stronger word for it. I hope it comes soon.

—and he didn't want the marriage either but that didn't stop him from raping her (conceiving me!). Her English was terrible, she couldn't drive and there was nothing you could walk to through those woods, all she had was a couple white-woman friends at church to keep her going. And they called her Lingling.

And... I derive sexual enjoyment from doing housework for white partners. But I do not enjoy reciting all that ^ damage for them. I do not bear the moral responsibility to educate an endless train of bitches.

So I need them to come to the negotiation already understanding the titanic weight, the millions of deaths, of why a Filipina woman might want to do their housework. Of why she's going to start crying partway through, and why that's part of what she wants out of it.

Being inadequately critical of your desires makes you at best tedious to the people who might want to play with you, but more likely it will make you dangerous. I could have made this point better but I'm mad.

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special collars for passing therians to wear to designate them as passing therians so onlookers know that it's ok that she's on the train by herself and buying groceries and probably hitting on you

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oop is a fucking moron lol. israel is a relatively poor country, of course they don't donate money to USA universities. aipac is not "foreign," it is funded by mainly USAmerican christian zionists. the problem with aipac (and israel) is it is a front to enrich the MIC, not because of so called foreign influence.

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Here are the 2024 vaccine recommendation schedules. They’ve already been wiped from the cdc site. Save them and share widely, especially to your friends with kids.

Hi!!! One of my parents got meningitis when I was a kid.

They were in the hospital for nearly a month, the rest of us were all placed in medical quarantine, there were several points we thought they were gonna die, and even though they survived, it was a SUPER close call and they lost about two years of memories from the ensuing brain damage.

Like… a two-uear-long cookie-cutter pocket of thoughts and memories went missing right out of their brain. It’s an inflammation of the brain that cooks it alive.

I DIDN’T EVEN KNOW THERE WAS A VACCINE.

I WILL BE GETTING IT.

B-17 bomber is riddled with German anti-aircraft fire but miraculously survives. Later they discover the explosive shells were all inert; sabotaged by Nazi slaves working in armament factories.

Inside one empty shell is a written note: it's all we can do for you now.

The most important part of all this is that these small acts of bravery and noncompliance cannot be known as long as the enemy still stands, and might never be known. Just because it doesn’t seem like anyone is doing anything doesn’t mean it’s true. The best malicious compliance or subtle sabotage is the one that’s never detected, but makes ravages nonetheless.

A critical part of any resistance is

Do not post your crimes

Do not brag. Do not look for brownie points. Do not publicly recruit. Keep your mouth shut.

dazeylily

it's sorta funny (ignoring the horrors) that cis people can't be trusted with a deadname. any time someone tells me theirs I've forgotten it five minutes later, if you had names for your toes that would be far more interesting to me, but cis people get real "if you give a mouse a cookie" about it it

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orrangeslices

I'm terrified of people even knowing it, because I know that some people will instantly lock that into their heads as my "real name" and eventually slip and say it instead

Something something that charlottan post about how even if people have only ever known you as the gender you transitioned to, they're still gonna think "oh they're just a boy that I need to remember to call a girl"

dazeylily

Most people won't slip up like that, the average cis person walks on eggshells so they don't accidentally reveal they're just humoring us out of a sense of obligation, they'll think about it and get even more anxious while doing that. This reinforces the wall between them and any insight into the situation.

its so unbelievable to me that cis people will decide to be permanently uncomfortable around trans people instead of putting in the minuscule amount of effort it takes just to view trans people as the gender they identify as.

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