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Cain’s Hall of Horrors

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I reblog stuff here (I have an art account! @canid-art)
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My sideblogs!

art blog is @canid-art! why? because people who followed me here for my art also had to see my reblogs and ramblings and I don't want them to have to deal with that lol

I'm a DID system! The Kobra Kid has his own blog at @kobratalks!

The System Fic Writer has a blog too at @lemnwritessometimes!

Name change! (from a while ago!)

I used to be lemonadesys, but yknow what they say: when life gives you lemons, make life take the lemons back! I don’t want your damn lemons, what am i supposed to do with these?!

Anyway I’m Cain now. Call the fic sideblog runner Lem, tho.

my pronouns: he/him, they/them is fine, any neopronouns

I like: Horror! Video games! Comics! Gay shit! Evil bands! (Ask me about Madmans Esprit pspspsps)

Tags (subject to change): mutuals #chaos god fluid - loki @thevalkyrieflies #flours - flowers @flowersfallingdown #green tea kitkats @imissnewmexicosunsets #wherefore art thou @ilan-is-anxious

stuff i talk about incessantly #man fuck the president - my bf @corvid-collector

book!victor: girl what is that thing!! how horrendous, how wretched, HOW UGLY, i need to leave IMMEDIATELY

movie!victor: oh thank fuck it's alive. what do i do. shit shit shit shit fuck okay let's take care of it. it acts like a baby which is odd as i've placed a fully-developed brain into it. fuck it. lets chain him up. u know what. feed it. laugh while trying to teach it some damn words. tuck it into bed. i can't fucking do this shit it's been DAYS since i've slept and eaten and i think i have a fever and oh my god I SAW MY MOTHER FOR A SECOND did he just try to fucking touch me???? DUNGEON. NOW. TIMEOUT FOREVER.

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amazing zone three sunset. im hanging on a bridge with my friend kobra kid from the fab four. its all orange and pink above us. we went to another mad gear show again. i love high fives again. totally back in love

whenever I confess to people that i feel like I am just roleplaying as a normal person they're always like noooo you don't strike me as someone who's roleplaying as a normal person at all!!! :) and every time internally im like well yes that's because I am excellent at it

my chemical romance fanfic writers are so funny . they took one look at frank iero and said what if we put this italian in a fucked up little Situation

they literally saw that 5’6 rhythm guitarist crawling around on the floor and said is anyone else gonna crucify this bitch and didn’t wait for an answer

ok so one of the people currently fronting wants to listen to rap and arthur wants to listen to his music (mostly 1940s radio hits but we introduced him to skeeter davis so) and i feel like a compromise would be. um chaotic here

funniest thing ever to me is one of the guys in my head, edge, hates another one of the guys, arthur—arthur is from the 1940s and is Just Minding His Business right, like he just looked in the fridge and went “goodness i would like to have an orange, that’d be just swell” and grabbed an orange and edge unprompted went “i hate you.” WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM LMAO LET THAT MAN HAVE AN ORANGE??

throat hurts. if i get sick AGAIN im killing someone

A well informed autism self diagnosis is just as valid as a psychiatric diagnosis. Additionally, under the given circumstances it is safer, most probably less expensive and you don't need to wait for any appointment.

10 screenshots from a twitter thread by @devprice with white text on black background.

The thread reads as follows:

I hear from many trans & nonbinary people who are actively seeking an Autism diagnosis. My advice is RETHINK THIS. Restricting Autistic people's access to gender affirming care is a major TERF talking point. As legal attacks on trans healthcare mounts, a psychiatric dx is a risk

The high overlap between Autism & transness was one of the main "concerns" JK Rowling rose in her "TERF Wars" blog post. Numerous fearmongering anti-trans articles influenced by TERFs have raised the issue since. if youre trans now is not a good time to seek a formal Autism dx.

An Autism dx does not unlock access to any beneficial therapeutic treatment, bc there is no "treating" Autism. Formal diagnosis makes us vulnerable to legal & psychiatric control and gets our competence challenged -- you dont need to subject yourself to this. diagnose yourself

I am close with dozens and dozens of Autistic people, and I have no idea who has a diagnosis and who does not. It does not matter. There is no reason to ask, no reason for others to care how someone identifies and how they arrived there -- all that matters is community support.

also if you cannot afford to pursue a lengthy & expensive lawsuit, it's unlikely a formal diagnosis will actually protect you from discrimination at work, in school or in housing. if you have the means great, but most don't. disclosing disability can be more risk than its worth.

if you need a dx to access resources such as disability benefits or extra test time, by all means go for it, but be cognizant of the potential costs. you could be denied for surgery, lose control of your assets, be found legally incompetent, lose custody of your kids...

Tweet replies to this thread:

By Greysquirrel @/treerat93

My autism dx was forced on me at age 2 and kept me out of the military in my 20s. It’s been nothing but destructive. I was beat up in sped and believed myself to be stupid my entire life because of it. I can’t even buy life insurance.

By Emily Johnson @/emily_rj

In some states, people with autism face being denied organ transplants, are at higher risk for forced sterilization and/or denied contraceptive and reproductive care, and have a higher risk of police brutality I considered this and decided informal diagnosis was best for me

By AK Faulkner is sweet and...

In the UK, an autism diagnosis is already a significant barrier to gender-affirming care. The GICs automatically try to discount dysphoria as autism during your initial assessments with them. If you arrive pre-diagnosed with autism they write your dysphoria off as that.

As someone with a diagnosis, I concur. Not only do these legal and healthcare barriers come up, but people around you will INSTANTLY treat you differently. It will be different for everyone, especially BIPOC, but for me my parents and people I live with and my work treat me like I'm stupid and need to be guided through life like I dont know how to be a person without their help. It is infuriating and while the diagnosis was incredibly validating... I just dont think it was worth it.

Also worth noting that Dr. Devon price is a psychologist who specializes in autism, who wrote “Unmasking Autism” and is also trans. So his warning should really be taken with a lot of weight of the expertise behind it.

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