This is extremely tasty and I want to push back on a couple of things, because I think what this made me realize is also that, like... Carol IS actually the way the other survivors see her, though. Like she is actually a rich white woman from America acting in ignorant, entitled, self-centered ways.
She excluded people who don't speak her language, and not because she was right to, but because she couldn't imagine how to work with them & didn't bother trying. Because it was more convenient for her if she excluded them. We see her go to the effort to talk to Manousos; we know she's fully capable of putting the effort in! Not to mention there is likely language overlap between other survivors & they may have been able to translate for each other. It was ignorant, incurious, and self-centered.
That's not optics. She legitimately fucked up.
And Carol didn't ask Them any questions; she made her assumptions and then acted on them. By the time Koumba points out that she never asked Zosia her name, Carol hadn't asked Them any questions that weren't directly related to herself. She was incurious because she assumed she knew best, and that is absolutely, directly because she is a privileged white woman. We see her start to ask more questions in authentically curious ways after this, and while her progress is slow & she continues to make a fool of herself when she fails to ask questions before jumping to conclusions (like with the eating people thing), she also gets a lot further and learns a lot more when she does this successfully.
Carol is absolutely right in her assessment of the situation, at its core, but she is also frequently wrong, she's reactive, she's ignorant, and she's self-centered. She fails to consider diverse perspectives, and she fails to try to connect with (marginalized) people because she comes from privilege and acts privileged. She doesn't treat them like equals.
She doesn't lose support from the other survivors because the hivemind outmaneuvers her, she loses it because she legitimately treats them as lesser than herself. And the hivemind (in all ways but one) does not.