sometimes i be saying im gonna go to bed and then i dont go to bed. frequently in fact. this is because i have the heart of an optimist and the soul of a liar

sometimes i be saying im gonna go to bed and then i dont go to bed. frequently in fact. this is because i have the heart of an optimist and the soul of a liar

BTW when you encounter a character and think "What's this guy's fucking problem?" that's your body trying to give you an out before you fall into obsession.

BTW when you encounter a character and think "What's this guy's fucking problem?" that's your body trying to give you an out before you fall into obsession.

this is my favourite post ever

this is my favourite post ever

I was in @sprouthqzine the lgbt haikyuu zine and yes I made something for oikawa and yes its incredibly self indulgent because WHAT ELSE WOULD BE THE POINT

I was in @sprouthqzine the lgbt haikyuu zine and yes I made something for oikawa and yes its incredibly self indulgent because WHAT ELSE WOULD BE THE POINT

i am a private person who doesn’t like talking about their life but who also compulsively overshares at any given opportunity. hope that helps

i am a private person who doesn’t like talking about their life but who also compulsively overshares at any given opportunity. hope that helps

ALT

shoutout this comment on the silksong trailer by the way

ALT

shoutout this comment on the silksong trailer by the way

guys. healing is awesome

guys. healing is awesome

when I'm dps-ing I wanna kill every other player, including the tank, and myself. I'm glancing at the dps meter with hatred

healing? I wanna fuck the other healer. not even joking

thought perhaps this was going to be a post about going on a journey of self improvement.

you can never go back. this is your one life. you had a bad childhood and that's it. you lost your teen years to mental illness and that's it. you're miserable in your 20s and that's it. you just go forward

you can never go back. this is your one life. you had a bad childhood and that's it. you lost your teen years to mental illness and that's it. you're miserable in your 20s and that's it. you just go forward

i just heard the phrase “if you wouldn’t trust their advice, don’t trust their criticism” for the first time and i don’t think i’ve ever needed to hear anything more

i just heard the phrase “if you wouldn’t trust their advice, don’t trust their criticism” for the first time and i don’t think i’ve ever needed to hear anything more

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

I hate that thing some people do where it's like. "I left my wallet on the table to see if you'd say anything" or "I wanted to see if you'd wash the car if I stopped doing it"

Cause like

I dont know about anyone else

But I am perpetually hovering three inches above the strong subconscious belief that everyone knows what they're doing at all times except me, so if you change your normal patterns and I notice, then I will assume it is an intentional choice with a thought-out plan behind it and I will avoid interfering

And if I don't notice, because I won't, because why would I, because not much bothers me and if you don't say anything to indicate you are bothered then how would I KNOW

Alternatives to experimenting on me like a lab rat when you suspect me of being inconsiderate:

1. "I feel like I'm the only one who does this chore. Can we start taking turns?"
2. "I'd like you to ask me how I'm doing more often."
3. "It bothers me when this area stays messy so long. Can you do X when Y happens?"
4. "I feel like the onus is on me to initiate X, and it's wearing me down. Could you try making the first move more? Like 3-4 times a week?"
5. "I'm feeling upset right now and I'd like to spend some time with you."
6. "When X happens, I feel like you're taking my work for granted."
7. "I'm feeling neglected. Could you do X?"
8. "I'm burnt out and need help."
9. "I feel like I'm the only one putting effort into X."
10. "Do you notice this?"
11. "Are you bothered by this?"
12. "I am bothered when this happens."
13. "X habit of yours bothers me."
14. "When X is like this, I feel bad. Can you [action] when you notice X?"

source

source

🤔 = casual pondering

🤨 = skeptical wondering

🧐 = philosophical musing

🤔 = casual pondering

🤨 = skeptical wondering

🧐 = philosophical musing

Reupload of my silly first kiss comic (i deleted my blog on accident lol)

Reupload of my silly first kiss comic (i deleted my blog on accident lol)

"don't assign human morality to non human things" is so true except when it comes to printers. they know what they are, they understand dilemmas and ethics and morality. they choose to be how they are, they choose to be evil, at their very core they are rotten

"don't assign human morality to non human things" is so true except when it comes to printers. they know what they are, they understand dilemmas and ethics and morality. they choose to be how they are, they choose to be evil, at their very core they are rotten