I only learned this lesson when I started looking for a job- in general, when I try to do something, i ask my parents or older people how they did it so I know what to do. That advice led to just getting in a shop, ask if they’re looking for new employees, and if yes I’d leave my contact info there and go ask another place.
I couldn’t find a job for over 2 months, with only two places getting back to me for an interview, and I asked dozens. It was for a summer job so I decided to try again next summer, when I’m out of school.
I tried again earlier, but I still had no luck for 3 to 4 months, when my therapist suggested I write an email. I was going to send my first draft when she told me I should probably rephrase it entirely.
What I eventually sent was more formal and succinct then I originally planned, and I added a few pleasantries I didn’t know I should have.
Of the two emails i wrote, both replied, agreeing for an interview. One looked pretty interested in me working for them, and i got the job for the other one.
Knowing how to write an email is genuinely a game changer and a real life skill everyone should learn.
The generations before us gen z’s are using emails for everything, and are used to this type of communication language for almost all their communication devices- I for one, get a happy birthday from my grandma in WhatsApp, and it’s phrased exactly like an email would.
So when you become an adult, it’s pretty important to learn how communicate with this crowd, because this crowd includes your bosses in your workplace, older family members, and the people selling you art online.
They are pretty much everywhere, and some of them don’t know what most acronyms mean, and they’ll probably feel uncomfortable with an email that doesn’t follow some etiquette.
Also, a ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ doesn’t cost you a penny. You can use em.