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Randomness mostly. Inbox is always open! Love talking to new people! Lee > AFAB He/Him Queer 1988 model damnitdeandean on AO3

I've been extremely quiet on here (save messages with one of my most treasured pirate friends), but I've been working my ASS off, getting ready to finally, FINALLY get back out on the course and show my horse. He turned 20 this year, but physically this is the best shape he's ever been in. First show is on the weekend of the 10th and I'm PUMPED. Lots of pictures to come, I promise.

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the og post was way too long so I'm making a new one

thanks for the tag @lombolica !! :D

You're stuck in a room with the last character in your gallery how safe are you

very safe

the worst thing that could happen is him being clumsy, so I think I'm alright (unless monsters find him I guess)

I think i'm safe

as long as he doesn't find out about my all nighters that is lol

Screenshot of season 3 Varian looking like a sad boi.
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Depends on where he is in his arc tbh

But considering that this screenshot is of S3 Varian I'm pretty safe, at least until we start doing experiments with hazardous chemicals.

Depends, did some idiot in my family make a deal before? Cos then I'm dead... Otherwise we'll just chat hehe

Npt

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fuck its a picture of my wife's drawing of alisha. (which I'm not posting for the same reason sorry)

I am SO dead. It would have been fine if it was anyone but her. But noooooo

Gods she is gonna kill me for all I've done to her

hatsune Miku sticker i found stuck to a door last week,,, she's real,,, i love her :] i am pretty safe woohoo!!

he’s either a silly goofy guy or a time lord who is older than the universe. who knows.

game carmen. i think i am okay but she may steal my shit while crouching menacingly

Ben the Stiller

I don’t think he’d necessarily kill me but more so have me exiled for whatever reason I dunno

I'm literally their babysitter😭I'll be fine

fuck this guy. im probably safe but ill be annoyed the whole time

I think i actually won with this one

Forgot to actually say how safe id be- on a scale of 1-10 id think like. 7. If i got hurt it would not be mortally and it would be an accident. Probably from me petting a joltik too enthussiastically im ngl AHXVAIXHWH

HAHAHAHAHA YEAH IM FINE

Oh I'd be very safe but you can bet your ass I'll be to nervous to even blink around this man let alone speak to him

TW: Fake / TV Show Gore

-Dimitri Kravinoff-

Uhhhh....l guess it depends on what part of his life we're talking about...wait no his dad was in the mafia or something forgot that hahaha, if it depended on him I would possibly be safe until like what happened at the end of the movie so, half and half 😂

Thank you @hatsuyoshi6u9 for the tag!

You're stuck in a room with the last character in your gallery how safe are you

I think I am safe. Tho I think Chiikawa is not safe from me since I'll hug and squeeze them a lot 😆 Also I might cry with Chiikawa a lot too when I am depressed and sad @2leggedshark @littlemissplanky @maineventshinku @crimsonsacrificialgoat @endofthetrilogy @chaotikjack and anyone wants too!

Thanks for the tag

I’m stuck with these two…

I don’t think I’m safe with these two freaks. Given their history, they’ll try to kill each other nonstop and using me as a shield at any given point. If only they had explosives in hand to get me out of this room! I don’t even know how to stop the chaos.

Who to tag:

@feelneurotic @old-no7 @piratewithvigor @lchimelightgoddess or anyone who wants to get in on the train

I've frankly never felt safer. How could cabbage madness be anything but secure?

I think I'm in danger? Not sure what from, but... Jerky is involved so shit ain't that safe 😬 (think I'm gonna run away to hide with @piratewithvigor)

Working in the yarn shop on Sundays, I have a group of regulars who come in specifically then for my advice on their knitting projects and over the years I've gotten to know a lot about them - their ailments and their spouses and their children and their careers and their mothers are all things they find themselves telling me about over the course of trying to bring forth a knitted piece. Most of them are women, most of them are over 50, and most of them have been through a lot and are trying to reclaim something for themselves through the act of creation. A while back, one of these older women opened up to me about how when she first came to this country it was just her and her daughter and they were so happy until her husband joined them, when he promptly began making her miserable. Now, decades later, all her children live far away, she spends all her time taking the husband to dialysis, her sciatic is bad and she may need heart surgery (who will take care of her, I find myself wondering), and she comes to see me once a month or so to talk about a new project and tells me it is the only thing she does for herself.

Today she came in with a smile on her face and delightedly introduced me to her son, who will soon move closer to home with his family. Then she says, as if commenting on the weather, that on Friday her husband died, and tomorrow they will hold the funeral. For a second I had tonal whiplash from the conversation and then I realized, oh, you're unburdened now. Like the relief in her face and her body were palpable. The son shows a picture of a cardigan to me and asks if it can be knitted, and we pick out yarn and a pattern. She's so excited to make it for him. She beams when she looks at him; he is tall and handsome and polite, and wants to wear something she made for him. She is proud of this man she raised.

It just made me think of the many, many women who come from cultures where leaving a crappy spouse isn't an option so they shuttle along doing their best and trying to find some beauty and joy in whatever way they can. Kids may not visit often because their spouse isn't welcoming or there is bad blood, so they are lonely. I remind her, we have our social group. She hasn't come to it much before because she is always taking him to dialysis, but now she says she will come often and meet the other women. Many of them are like her, but in the craft they find companionship that has been absent for so much of their lives. I hope there will be renewal for this dear lady and that she can learn more about herself and what brings her joy.

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