Please don’t let fandom ruin something you love. Walk away and unfollow the fans and enjoy the thing by yourself, or find a limited circle of people who ignore the discourse, or get your irl friends into the thing and collectively ignore the Internet community, or blacklist from here to the moon if you need to and only ever scroll through your rarepair ship’s tag on AO3. But don’t let fandom distort a show or a movie or a book or a comic you used to love so badly that you can’t enjoy the original anymore. Please. It isn’t worth it.

I realise the "lesbian heated rivalry would have to be set in a beauty sport!" juggernaut has already left the station, but can we please consider that for a lot of female athletes trying to build a pro career all sports are beauty sports?

There's SO much pressure to be/look feminine in a traditionally marketable way! Pretty much all of your secondary revenue (which is important when your 'pro wage' is essentially a stipend) relies on you being camera-friendly! Brands targeting dudes are not generally investing in female athletes, your brand deals are likely with companies who want to put a "strong female spin" on a very tradItionally girly product! YOU ARE SEEN AS A MORE VALUABLE ASSET TO THE SPORT IF YOU ARE PRETTY AND FEMME AND STRAIGHT DUDES THINK YOU'RE HOT

Please read insanely decorated Team USA and Seattle Torrent captain Hilary Knight talking about the male gaze and getting gender weirds when being asked to bulk up and struggling to come out because she was The Face Of Women's Hockey and everyone was soooo glad it was a nice femme face! LOOK AT MEGAN RAPINOE AGREEING (Link is paywall-removed for your convenience)


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The PWHL is right there and it is soooo ready for all your gender flipped gay hockey needs! Beauty standards are a prison and the entire fucking league is doing time!!!

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