I think a lot of the people banning kids from both online and irl spaces aren't necessarily doing it because they just haven't put the obvious 2 and 2 together and they're somehow blissfully unaware that they're forcing kids into a life of constant control, surveillance, and isolation. I think for a lot of the adults pushing for these bans, the control, surveillance, and isolation are the point. they want to control what information their* kids (*read: the kids they're claiming as their property) could learn. they want to control what kinds of people their* kids could befriend. they want to monitor everything their* kid does, says, or thinks so anything they don't approve of can be immediately "corrected". they don't want their* kids to exist anywhere other than in their home, because they see any potential friendships, love, or care that their* kids could be exposed to elsewhere as an inherent threat to their own claims of ownership and property!
I compulsively deleted the original version of this post around the same time I wrote it, but I'm bringing back a saved reblog from my drafts, because I was correct.



