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it is so fucking bleak that the worst thing most people can think to say about diet culture/restriction/glp-1s for weight loss etc. is that they “don’t even work.” why is your critique of fatphobia still based in a belief that being fat is a problem in need of fixing
if treating your body as something to be punished and denied had a 100% hit rate of making you drop 100 pounds and keep it off it would not make it any less abhorrent to keep promoting it, it would not make it any less cruel to force on fat kids, it would not make it any more worth it. your argument against disordered eating and the culture that mandates it cannot be founded on a belief that it’s not an effective enough way to hate the fat body
As most of you probably know/realized, I fell for the phishing scam of “legit blog writes to you via DM to tell you they accidentally signaled you to tumblr and you’re about to get terminated if you don’t contact live support”. BUT THE BLOG IS NOW BACK IN MY (daph)’s HANDS
i panicked, fell for it and lost access to my account. I immediately contacted support but being friday evening, and them not working on weekends and only 9-5pm California time weekdays, they only got back to me after a full 3 days. So for 3 days, my account was in the hands of scammers. It even got suspended for a few hours. I managed to warn some mutuals and friends via discord and created an emergency backup at @ivashkovvvvv (i will leave it up, who knows)
i got back to a DM inbox crazy, they contacted every person I ever DM'ed with. My apologies for all this and if my blog contacted you, whether it was “u busy/sup/hi there” or them sending upfront the whole scam. I’ve contacted back most people, but again, my apologies… i figure a handful of people blocked me (as they should have!)
massive thanks to all the mutuals and friends who supported me through this, especially during my breakdowns (i write in plural form as if it wasn’t just ONE long breakdown of 3 days), and those that spread the word! for numerous reasons, this was extremely hard on me and i’ve beaten myself up extremely hard over this because I am so ashamed of myself and consider myself so stupid for this (my brain was not functioning right. idk man. it’s been a hell of a last 6 months, and other stuff happened and i just froze when i thought i could lose my blog of FOURTEEN YEARS, and this is the main “social” i use), my thoughts remain dark but they got DARK DARK, i was almost back to the worst mental health i had in my life (a close second). so idk i think i will take a break from tumblr in any case, it’s not like i am making a lot of edits anyway and i am but a small blog in any case
i am active on discord so feel free to message me so we can add each other there! turns out it was quite useful for this
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