how do i explain to non brazillians that theres a guy in the new season of a reality show who spent weeks rubbing his shirt in his girlfriends armpits just so he could sniff it while he was in the program. then started crying and this girl just pulls out the shirt for him to sniff and calm down. the last romantic on earth
“radical feminists” online can become neurotic about certain niche trends in left/liberal gender theory but absolutely nothing on earth can plunge you into Doomerism more than listening to straight women speak. I can have somewhat productive conversations and disagreements with real Gender Knowers and Transsexuals and Gender Weirdos but speaking with normal straight women is the closest I’ve ever gotten to voluntarily putting myself in a psych ward.
As many know, I am a card carrying member of a couple of local “Sis, Is This Your Man?” facebook groups. I’m in them to expose myself more to the average straight women’s experiences with dating, in their own words. Straight women who have gotten ahold of queer theory and feminism are kind of a different crop of people and have a more sophisticated approach. So normies are better to talk to. And man…it’s dire…
There was a post where a woman described how her man woke her up out of her sleep with vaginal penetration after rejecting a request for sex. Many women in the group told her that if she says no to sex, her man will cheat. They actually told her to just lay there and don’t think about it, if she wants to keep her man. Now, some women accurately said that was sexual assault. But they were in the minority. These aren’t “incels.” These aren’t redpillers. These aren’t male adherents to religion. these are just women who love men. What they described, to just accept male violence if they want to keep a man, is what I would honestly call a straight woman version of “being blackpilled.” I think some people call this “Heterofatalism” lol. I don’t think those women are stupid—they are actually making an insight. Believing that unwanted sex is a physical harm may cause a man to not like you and cheat; many religious men complain about wives who deny sex, because private property isn’t supposed to speak. They’re not wrong, but the problem is they accept this as the natural order of things instead of an enforced social issue that needs to be abolished. They can’t see a reality where they try to just not pursue men and see what happens…
There is a very common genre of post that goes “My man is an evil sexually undisciplined demon who opened up a portal to hell in front of everybody, grew two horns, and caught on fire at random intervals. But he says nice things to me. Any advice?” All of these posts are made with the assumption that simply breaking up isn’t the obvious option. They want to “fix” men who hate them and they are seeking validation for their mentally diseased behavior their insistence on venerating male attention. Now usually the comments are split between telling the dunce who posted it to break up or actually providing useless advice to “fix it.” But the frequency of these posts are absolutely alarming and point to a bigger social pattern, in my unprofessional opinion. If you go on normie reddit boards where Women discuss Women Things this genre of complaint is also prominent!
The DL investigators. “Is my man gay for having good hygiene?” There will be a not insignificant amount of posts that are anxious about men who wash their ass, care about their skin, and are well groomed and nerdy. Because real straight men are stank, love guns and football, and, like, don’t groom themselves and that’s how you know he’s a real man. Then they turn around and complain about the turbo masculine men that they want, in an endless Sisyphean journey of self harm. A real “architect of your own demise” sort of thing. I am not joking.
Women will post about how they had unprotected sex with a man they met on Grindr or Hinge or the Walmart produce section or whatever and then ask the class, “should I get tested?” Then act shocked when women tell them to use condoms next time. Again, I’m not joking.
Women who get mad at other women who date or entertain married men instead of getting mad at the man who made vows. Thankfully, women who make these posts get absolutely whacked in the comment section for not exposing their cheating husband instead. Not all hope is lost (just most of it).
My god that reminds me there was a post in one of these groups where a woman had a husband who did nothing around the house, didn’t help raise their child, and she found out he was sitting on the computer all day looking at pornography of “little anime girls.” I wish I was trolling lol. And of course, she asked, “Any advice?” She actually wanted to salvage the marriage and do “couple’s therapy.” And some women actually told her to try it!
There’s more but I can’t even talk about it right now or I’ll start getting mad lol but all that is to say, I saw another online radical feminist say “We are the Cucked Gender” and I think this…explains everything. It’s more gratifying to focus on easier and far less threatening targets than to confront the fact that much of our own Sex Class™️ actively refuses to care about their own wellbeing and has nearly zero political education about it and even less political discipline. Feminists who do not primarily focus their ire on heterosexuals are suspicious to me. Straight men are dragging us all to hell more than any other demographic and a lot of women who love them are on board with it. Heterosexuality is the spectre haunting feminism. 😭
“goddess” “matriarchy” “female wisdom” girl your civic rights
“But I didn’t and still don’t like making a cult of women’s knowledge, preening ourselves on knowing things men don’t know, women’s deep irrational wisdom, women’s instinctive knowledge of Nature, and so on. All that all too often merely reinforces the masculinist idea of women as primitive and inferior – women’s knowledge as elementary, primitive, always down below at the dark roots, while men get to cultivate and own the flowers and crops that come up into the light. But why should women keep talking baby talk while men get to grow up? Why should women feel blindly while men get to think?”
— Ursula K. Le Guin
Jo in Little Women: “I find it poor logic to say that because women are good, women should vote. Men do not vote because they are good; they vote because they are male, and women should vote, not because we are angels and men are animals, but because we are human beings and citizens of this country.”
