Long story short the guy I'm married to is in the army. He has back problems due to the army. He has been fighting tooth and nail to stay in (from therapy to getting shots in his spine to fry the nerves) but it's been too long with him on a profile and with no other recommended means of betting better there is an almost definite chance he is being medically discharged from the army. With his mother living in a house the size of a studio apartment and just taking in her old drug addicted ex husband there is no room for us, and I don't have much of a family to speak of at all, so I am again kind of about to be thrown in the air with nowhere to live. Again. :|