Heya it's me again, the dragoness that complains about stuff, topic of the day is how shitty public servers can be.

This doesn't apply specifically only to the two categories this journal's title but you could kinda apply it to any kind of servers really.

So my problem comes usually after joining for a while, most of the big artists servers especially in the rp chats. It feels like it's impossible to get into the group, like you're joining into a conversation between ppl that know everyone and everything about everyone aside from you, the dreadful feeling of simply being excluded because yes is frankly annoying and it can spiral (and I admit sometimes i did it myself) in lash outs, and very vocal complains that are always minimazed or worse throw you even more in the pit of "lonliness" in that server, making ot become an hostile environment for most.

And yes ofc crashing out loudly in chat about the situation ain't the right solution, but it's still frustrating as fuck.