"TRUST is a fragile word with a strong meaning behind it, a word that people can either cherish or abuse. You try to maintain your belief in it from those who misuse or damage it - keeping your personal faith in the word as solid and whole as it can be. But the more it breaks down and the more energy you put into maintaining it, the less you feel like if it's worth keeping it together. Soon, you yourself start to break ..."
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I feel what you're saying/implying, 100%.
For myself, every relationship I have is measured by what degree of 'Trust' I can give to another. If they show it's earned/respected/warranted, then those (very few) people become life-long friends (provided they don't later change their minds, and start abusing it!).
When I was younger I tried to give people far more trust at the start than they ever deserved, and got burned/hurt for it time-and-time-again. I suppose that's 'Life' and one of the harsh lessons we must learn in experiencing it.
Now I dole out 'Trust' based on a 50/50 system. Meet folks halfway and see how thing to from there.
Stay safe and don't let the jerks in the world grind you down!
(((Hugs, if o.k.)))
For myself, every relationship I have is measured by what degree of 'Trust' I can give to another. If they show it's earned/respected/warranted, then those (very few) people become life-long friends (provided they don't later change their minds, and start abusing it!).
When I was younger I tried to give people far more trust at the start than they ever deserved, and got burned/hurt for it time-and-time-again. I suppose that's 'Life' and one of the harsh lessons we must learn in experiencing it.
Now I dole out 'Trust' based on a 50/50 system. Meet folks halfway and see how thing to from there.
Stay safe and don't let the jerks in the world grind you down!
(((Hugs, if o.k.)))
Humans are idiots, always were. The important part is that once in a while they aren't! Personal perspective: give trust freely, with a backup plan if they aren't there. A lot of the time it ends up being that they got held up, sometimes they just didn't want to. If it doesn't work, they don't get to do the thing, and I get to move on with some project I was going to do anyway.
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