Add `proxied` to Cloudflare DNS records (sst#5134)

* Add `proxied` to Cloudflare DNS records

* sync

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Co-authored-by: Frank <[email protected]>

update function to allow node 22.x (sst#5125)

* update function to allow node 22.x

and update the default to node 22.x

* update nextjs and ssr-site for node v22.x

* sync

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Co-authored-by: Frank <[email protected]>

SsrSite: fix viewer response edge function not created

closes sst#5073

ignore: forgot to save

dev: decrease local nodejs timeout

sync

Cluster: add path-based routing to ALB

closes sst#5078

Postgres: fix reference not respect provider options

closes sst#5081

Service: fix partition issue

Components: respect aws-gov-cloud and aws-cn partition in constructin…

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closes sst#5076