guys….,, being friends, like actual friends, with people you have systemic privilege over is going to involve some good-natured ribbing. it’s going to involve them complaining about [insert privileged group you belong to] in front of you or even to you. that’s not a personal attack, it’s because they think you’re cool enough to hang. it’s because they think they can express their frustration to you without you attacking them. you really want to prove them wrong?
Apparently ICE now has agents posing as utility workers to get into people's homes. The electric and gas companies have posted information on how to tell if it's one of their workers, and numbers to call to confirm whether they've sent someone to do utility work on your house.
Stay safe, friends.
We need to have a serious talk about sex. Of course, the fantasy is incredible to play with, who doesn't like the idea of listening to "biiiig stretch now" "look how you're dripping wet" - I, myself, love it. But, younger girls and all girls,
- you may not always be dripping wet, sometimes it doesn't matter how turned on you are. Some girls don't get that wet and it's totally ok. It's not a problem.
- use lube. Even if you are dripping wet, lube is never too much. Lube that strap up, that toy. Using toys and even fingering yourself while lubed up it's much better. Do not hurt yourself.
- do not hurt yourself. You really don't want your princess parts to tear. You want to enjoy a bigger toy, a bigger strap, go slow, lube that shit up and respect your body.
- playing with yourself dry hurts, not in a good way. Really, just use lube.
- spit is not lube. It's just sexy.
Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.
Listen: if anyone tells you that you won’t need a safeword with them, walk away. Right then and there.
Safewords aren’t optional. They’re the foundation of trust, communication, and safety in BDSM. If someone dismisses them, they’re showing you they don’t respect your boundaries, your agency, or the basic principles of consent. And that’s a flashing red flag.
Let's as a community normalize others needing to use medical equipment and also being sexy and wanting intamacy.
Don't get me wrong. I want the fun filled sexy adventures followed by cuddling all night with my head in the crook of their neck or theirs in the crook of mine. However, I also know I need to use my C-Pap machine when sleeping or I- A. Won't sleep well if at all.
B. Will stop breathing.
C. Etc etc etc.
My friend said the hardest part of having a insulin pump was during dating and wanting to move forward with sexy fun times and navigating that. Them and their spouse make it work now and it's a non-issue.
Hearing aids, prosthetics, health monitoring devices, mobility aids, respiratory aids, etc.
You're not less for needing to use medical equipment. You are seen, heard, and a valued member of the community. 💕
Trans experiences: wearing a hijab as a trans man.
TT post by @ starboy.cherie (he/him).
This entire comment section ended up being a lot better than expected.
butches, no more trying to be cool in 2026 please. i love your beat up car and your palpable excitement when you find authentic carpenter pants at the thrift. i love your goofy warm smile when i make extra coffee for you to steal. i love your body wash and your favourite dinner and your stuttering over your words and your big emotions.
please let me slip through the nonchalance and find you where you’re softest <3
I LOVEEEEE listening to people ramble and talk for hours. I love to just sit and listen.
I love how one question will turn into them into explaining the deep lore behind their favorite game, book series, whatever it may be. I never get bored. In fact I keep asking questions for them to keep going.
I wanna watch them play their game and ask questions I already know the answer to. Just to hear them talk about it.
“Can you explain what’s going on in the game, sweetheart?”
Watching them get really excited to talk about said topic, moving their hands, eyes lighting up, voice getting higher pitched. It’s allll soooo cute:(
Men and minors dni
PSA for apparently everyone this 2026:
Stop demonizing butches. Stop demonizing studs. Stop demonizing he/him lesbians, lesboys, lesbians on t/e, and butch boyfriends. Stop demonizing things just because you don’t understand them.
Stop with this obvious hatred of gender non-conforming people. We don’t owe you anything.
Stop attacking us for living as our true selves, and maybe, this new year, start asking us questions. Be curious, and be open.
Long live the weird gender lesbians 🙏
I need lesbian porn where the girls just want to make each other cum or use each other's body, ones where the girls clearly want pleasure from each other, not the ones catered for male fantasies
I need girls that whimper instead of moan from the first touch. Want bottoms that would fuck themselves on their top's fingers just to feel good.
I want to see the girls cum and overstimulate the other. I want the clits rubbed, nipples sucked, and just devouring each other.
I would even love girls just touching themselves, showing off their pretty cunt and body, showing everyone how much of a slut they are
Shit
Please send me links. I'm desperate.
things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever
- change the color used to highlight text on your laptop
- move the pictures on your wall
- stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you don’t have time to clean it all
- slightly vary your commute, even just by one street
- change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if it’s only to the chair in your room instead of your bed
- drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real
- shower with the lights off, without music
- buy $3 flowers at trader joe’s—they look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room
- start typing things you don’t post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you don’t deem them worth sharing
- wake up super early just once. you don’t have to make it a habit it’s just extra satisfying to go to bed that night
- listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015
Almost all of these are about variety. Humans need stimulation! We need enrichment! We literally cannot do the same thing every day!
The other day I was feeling miserable, so I hopped on a bus and rode it all the way back to where I’d started, and my brain, which had finally had some proper stimulation via new environments, was suddenly ready to go again!
This is why taking walks/drives and trying new hobbies are good for you! Don’t turn yourself into a sad zoo animal! You need some pumpkins to roll around in your enclosure!
ITS BACK!!!!!
god i fucking love the quote “dont turn yourself into a sad zoo animal” it has really inspired me!
i fear a lot of you who say there is a "masc" shortage only want a cis skinny white girl with short hair and cannot handle the concept of a hairy butch who takes testosterone, has had top surgery, is a person of colour, has big muscles, uses he/him pronouns, refers to themself as a dyke, or a tranny, or is a trans female butch.
hell, most of you won't even say the word butch. you want a dumbed down, acceptable version of butch lesbianism, and the reality of the matter will not accept that.
No one wants to say it, so fuck it. I will.
If you project a fantasy onto someone and are disappointed they do not meet it, that is entirely a you problem. I strongly encourage some deep self reflection as to why you feel like you're entitled to their attention.
If you want someone to obsess over you, that's fine. You do you.
But some of you are looking in the wrong places.
If you are messaging these generalized nsfw accounts, expecting a sense of importance, priority, intimacy and devotion from a stranger, solely based off sexual posts you resonate with, you're doing it wrong.
If you find yourself getting jealous that their attention isn't on you, that's proof right there that you are obsessed with the version of them that can regulate your emotions. They are not responsible for your ideals you project. You don't know them. They don't know you. You just like the way they make you feel.
They don't owe you exclusivity because you find that their posts regulate/validate something within you.
Please, take a look in the mirror and become more self aware of the motives behind your actions.
(If this made you uncomfortable and you still read it— thank you. Take that as a good sign. If you find yourself relating, don't attack yourself and drown in guilt/shame. Learn from your actions and change them. I mean everything with respect and love.)