Castle Amerongen, Netherlands, photos by Henk Vrehen
Can’t believe Tangled (2010) had the emotional intelligence and insight to ask the question what do you do when your dream IS fulfilled and it’s everything you wanted it to be but then it’s over.
BUT it’s not the ONLY movie to do so. The Princess Bride also wrestled with this problem, and came up with a totally different answer:
White Owl Flies Into and Out of the Field by Mary Oliver
Robin Wright + Cary Elwes in THE PRINCESS BRIDE (1987), dir. Rob Reiner
“AT THIS POINT in the story, my wife wants it known that she feels violently cheated, not being allowed the scene of reconciliation on the ravine floor between the lovers. My reply to her is simply this: (a) each of God’s beings, from the lowliest on up, is entitled to at least a few moments of genuine privacy. (b) What actually was spoken, while moving enough to those involved at the actual time, flattens like toothpaste when transferred to paper for later reading: "my dove,” “my only,” “bliss, bliss,” et cetera. © Nothing of importance in an expository way was related, because every time Buttercup began “Tell me about yourself,” Westley quickly cut her off with “Later, beloved; now is not the time.” However, it should be noted, in fairness to all, that (1) he did weep; (2) her eyes did not remain precisely dry; (3) there was more than one embrace; and (4) both parties admitted that, without any qualifications whatsoever, they were more than a little glad to see each other. Besides, (5) within a quarter of an hour, they were arguing.“
–The Princess Bride by William Goldman (the original novel, which if you’ve never read it, is hysterically funny.)
“It’s a fairytale, but it’s not really just a fairytale. It’s a fairytale for adults. There’s a satirical edge to it. But what runs through the core of the story of The Princess Bride is true love, which is a fairytale notion, but I believe that at the core of any good relationship between a man and a woman is true love, even in living in a complex society of the 80s where relationships are not easy and they’re not simple. If a relationship is going to work and have any kind of longevity, there has to be some core of real, true love there, and I believe those things.” — Director Rob Reiner talking about “The Princess Bride” in an interview with CBC in 1987.
THE PRINCESS BRIDE | 1987
REST IN PEACE ROB REINER (March 6, 1947 — December 14, 2025)
Billie Eilish – everything i wanted // Richard Siken, “Meanwhile” // Ada Limón, “Lies About Sea Creatures”
Emily Skaja, from “I Liked Myself Better as an Exquisite Skeleton”, pub. The Offing [ID’d]
Nikolay Punin, The Diaries of Nikolay Punin: 1904-1953
Anais Nin, In Favor of the Sensitive Man and Other Essays
“What was my mad heart dreaming of?”— Sappho (Stung with Love: Poems and Fragments, trans. Aaron Poochigian)