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renthony:

renthony:

I wish it was easier to find support for infertility and pregnancy loss that isn’t steeped in patriarchal cishet bullshit.

And I wish it was easier to talk about infertility and pregnancy loss in queer and leftist spaces without having to brace for “children are gross little parasites who suck, why would you even WANT one? Are you sure it isn’t just patriarchal brainwashing making you stupid?”

I also hate when people do the “you can just adopt!” thing, for several major reasons:

1. Adoptees deserve to be treated as more than a “backup option.” They are human beings, not props.

2. I DO have an adopted kid. We fostered them as a teenager. I love them so, so much and am deeply honored to have been their guardian when they needed one. That doesn’t mean I don’t still experience grief about my body or my failed attempts to have a baby. I can hold both love for the kid I do have and grief for the ones who never were.

3. The adoption industry is FULL of horrific abuse and literal child trafficking, and I have major ethical concerns about how often I get told “just adopt!” by people who are completely clueless about that.

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blumineck:

This is honestly the most badass shield I’ve ever seen, beating out the lantern shield by virtue of being at least somewhat practical!

More antics on Patreon

respectissexy:

dragongirlbunny:

i wish there was an easier way to tell the difference between an “if it sucks hit da bricks” situation and a “sometimes being an adult means doing things that you dont wanna” situation

The best answer to this that I’ve seen is “You are free to do whatever you like. You must only live with the consequences.”

“If it sucks, hit da bricks” is for when you realize that you actually definitely can live with the consequences of Not Doing The Thing.

“Sometimes being an adult means doing things that you don’t wanna” is for when you’ve thought it over and it turns out you would strongly prefer NOT to live with the consequences of Not Doing The Thing.

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Anonymous asked:

Just finishd gay porn

patrik6090:

ALL OF IT???????

haunteddollsgeorg:

I think the ideal mutual is someone with some solid common ground but who also has a bonkers niche interest that’s totally foreign to you. It’s like a friendly educational experience

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vendeluxe:

vendeluxe:

evil Winnie the Pooh: I could go for a few smackerels of blood right now

i think i’m going to pass out from how funny this reply is

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luulapants:

luulapants:

Nothing more cringe-worthy than a story where the writer clearly thinks they’re making some broad statement about the human condition in the modern day but actually it’s just been too long since they left their specifically dysfunctional community, which is ultimately irrelevant to most of society. And 95% of the time that community is Hollywood.

[writer who got his big break and moved to LA about 10 years ago] wow has anyone noticed how everyone has become an inauthentic, self-obsessed social climber in the past decade?

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botchallthethings:

dearbisexual:

dearbisexual:

dearbisexual:

dearbisexual:

going to start researching sheep breeds that are like endangered or need conservation and then seek out their wool to use, preferably buying directly from the herders, so i can support them

i found a farm that has Navajo-Churro sheep and sells their wool as roving and yarn directly to the public, along with several other uncommon breeds :) website here

holy shit theres a lot of small farms out there with heritage breed sheep n other animals selling their fiber!!

re: your tags, totally fine to reblog!! there’s a whole database of farms im looking at now on the Livestock Conservancy website!! here’s the link, all you have to do is select “yarn” or “fiber” from this drop down menu

and it’ll give you contact info and websites to A BUNCH of small farms selling their heritage breed fiber directly!! you can also look up by animal breed if you want a specific kind of fiber like, say Navajo-Churro

it’s AWESOME!! many of these farms seem to be certified by the Conservancy and the Conservancy itself seems to be like a good nonprofit

Shave ‘em to save 'em!

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orpheusilver:

orpheusilver:

orpheusilver:

masturbation is evil not for any puritan anti-fun reason but because it has permanently claimed so many verbs

nobody can crank anything anymore. and god forbid you jerk

turning off rbs at 75k btw so get your last reblogs in now

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heavensickness:

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