''when did we all become so performative'' idk man when the threat of being recorded at any time and posted for milions to see without your knowledge became normalised.

reblog to give your headache to elon musk instead

saying this now before kevins duology come out so people can know i was a #1 kevinday defender and i acknowledged his pain and trauma before his books come out

• i am a kevin day defender first, everyone else comes second

• he suffered so much but everyone ignores it because we dont have his pov (yet)

• the foxes may be neils family but they are not kevins (except the andreil and wymack) (maybe even aaron and nicky)

• this man is the definition of mentally unstable

• HE HAS NOT HEALEDDD!!!!! he hides behind alcohol and exy

• he is NOT over rikos death no matter how much pain and trauma riko caused him (as seen in tgr)

• he did not have it easier than jean because he was rikos brotherbestfriend

THE 👏 FOXES 👏 MAY 👏 BE 👏 NEILS 👏 FAMILY 👏 BUT 👏 THEY 👏 ARE 👏 NOT 👏 KEVINS

I agree with everything here.

whimsically gentle, weirdly ethereal, mildly offputting in a batshit insane way, but still mostly kind softspoken women HAVE to be platinum blonde. it’s the rule. pandora rosier, renee walker and aurora aksnes are RIGHT there. in this thesis i will-

If I had a nickel for every time I felt protective over a snarky, emotionally guarded Eastern European teenage boy with a dead mom, an asshole dad that later dies resulting in very bittersweet and complicated feelings, and an affinity for deflowering a shy nerdy boy, parading around with a girl named Svetlana in front of him/sending mixed signals, and then slowly (painfully slowly) falling in love with him after years of a messy on again-off again relationship that included a ton of sex, sneaking around, a dad walking in on them, his boyfriend acquiring a beard after trying to date and then becoming best friends with a woman, and a slow transition from calling each other by their last names to their first names...

I'd have two nickels. Which isn't a lot but it's weird it happened twice.

not a day goes by where I don't think about the fact that william andrew solace has a sun tattoo on his chest.

When I criticize jk Rowling do not assume I always hated Harry Potter. I knitted hogwarts house scarves. I got my first binder to dress as Draco Malfoy for Halloween. I reread the books multiple times. I read probably every pottermore article there was at the time.

I’m not here to validate your smug feelings about not liking a children’s book series 20 years ago. I’m here to discourage others from spending money on it and to give myself and others words and space to work through some feelings. I’m a trans person that made Harry Potter one of my cornerstone interests. One of my favorite things. I’m not some cis person doing cope.

Harry Potter was a big thing. Like. Big in a way that’s difficult to fully understand. It still is. If you were caught up in it during your formative years it’s normal to need to process all of the horrid things now associated with it.

Having to burn down the house you grew up in is going to be hard even if it turns out that the house was always rotten from the inside out. Even if it turns out that the foundation was made of straw. But the destruction and deconstruction must happen if one hopes to move on and move forward. That’s why I talk about it at all.

couldn’t have said it better myself.

Not me distinctly remembering that DLDR was originally meant for GAY ships because homophobia in the 2000s was so bad that gay fics would get mass flamed if you didn’t put that disclaimer.

Listen, I’m gonna really need y’all to not dump too much money into Montreal Metros merch and for all that is good do not get a Montreal Metros tattoo! Trust me on this one.

Love,

Someone who has read The Long Game

james baldwin was right. one day i’ll weep for this. one of these days i’ll start to cry. 

heated rivalry has proven that there is in fact a market for gay sports tv shows for the general public. Now if you're delusional enough, that means that somewhere in the very distant future, we could get an aftg tv adaptation, in this essay I will-

theyre going to ask what the week from december 19th to dec 26th felt like when every second joke was about coming to the cottage and i grinned like a lotto winner at everyone and ill say not everything feels like something else

I actually ADORE it when a character crashes out. Let them YELL let them SCREAM let them HURT THOSE AROUND THEM with or without meaning to. I need to see more crash outs

i feel a little insane when i see people calling heated rivalry slop bc it's so well directed

and it’s also very well written as a show bc from everything i’ve seen from the source material the writers managed to squeeze blood from a stone