Reblog if you love boobs and hate ICE
some of you are painfully unaware that part of the whole reason many kinksters are like "what happens in my or someone else's bedroom is no one else's business"
is because people have been arrested and put in fucking PRISON just for having gay sex in the privacy of their own homes. in the United States. this millennia.
if you think i'm joking, look up Lawrence v. Texas (2003). 14 out of the 50 US States STILL had laws on the books criminalizing sodomy--and yes, you could be imprisoned for multiple years and sometimes even life for repeat offenses.
in the years directly leading up to the landmark case, enforcement even in those 14 states varied, but it was absolutely weaponized against queer people, especially when stacked on top of other offenses to make up a longer sentence.
um so anyway, what happens between two or more consenting adults in the privacy of their own homes is none of my OR YOUR business, and i'm not fucking kidding!
Important additional context:
"Sodomy" does not, in a legal context, mean "anal sex."
It means "any sexual act the court has decided is deviant."
BDSM? Sodomy.
Crossdressing for sexual pleasure? Sodomy.
Jacking off to nude photos or video your consenting adult lover sent you of themselves? Sodomy.
Het oral sex? SODOMY!!!
If you're starting to think "but how could anyone prove that happened without breaking down the door?"
Ha. Haha. Ahaha.
First, I'll give you one guess how they did prove it.
Two, these were often scapegoat charges--basically they couldn't actually nail you on anything because you hadn't done anything actually illegal, only things they didn't like, and they relied on public disgust against your "degenerate character" (yeah there's a very big reason we keep saying not to use that word and it's not to be killjoys) to make sure you knew your place.
Which means that in practice:
Went to a socialist meeting? Sodomy.
Male kindergarten teacher? Sodomy.
Mixing races? Sodomy.
Not Christian (or the right kind of Christian)? Sodomy.
Kink is only the beginning. They'll come after the kinksters because they're low-hanging fruit, and you'll gleefully help them dig a hole, laughing all the way and never consider that it's way too big for the number of bodies you need to bury.
No really, you should read it.
are you okay i noticed you reblogging "a raven with a damaged wing. it can still fly with ease" again
"the average income in <X> is <Y> of <currency>" cool, what's the median
Average isn't useful here. however, after a little bit of research, apparently the median income in the US is $24,327, which means the reality is actually much worse than this meme makes it seem. yay!
According to time magazine, median annual rent is $13,896, which means rent alone is 57% Of the median annual income, awesome!
theyre lesbians now
- Compliment someone on one of their personality traits
- Write a handwritten card to someone to say thanks
- Text a friend to share your gratitude for something they did for you
- Leave a positive review online of a restaurant you like
- Tell a friend what you love about their children
- Compliment a photo someone posts on social media
- Let someone cut in front of you in line
- Introduce two people who you think would get along
- Pick up trash on the ground and put it in the garbage
- Compliment someone on their clothing or hair
- Use old grocery bags to pick up dog poop you see on your neighbor's lawn
- Shovel snow off the sidewalk in your neighborhood
- Offer to mow the lawn for an elderly neighbor
- Give up your seat on the plane to let a couple sit together
- Talk to someone at a party that doesn’t seem to know anyone
- Invite someone new in your town to a social event and introduce them to everyone
- Invite a friend that you haven’t seen in a while out to lunch
- Offer to pick up a friend at the airport
- Reach out to an old friend to let them know of an experience you had with them that you value
- Spend time with the elderly at a local retirement home
- Offer to bring someone else's grocery cart back to the store
- Keep an extra pen in your purse to give people when they need one
- Put a positive note in a library book
- Attend events that support your friends’ passions (like an art show, musical performance, etc…)
- Donate unused items to charity
- Bring snacks to the local fire station
- Keep packs of toothpaste or packs of socks in your bag to give to homeless people
- Post an uplifting photo on a friend’s social media
- Compliment someone on something they’ve done or accomplished
- Tell a parent that they’re doing a great job raising their kids
- Bring or send your mother flowers
- Bring a friend a small gift next time you see them
- Buy a warm meal to give to a homeless person
- Share an article, event, or other information with someone who might be interested
- Help to connect a friend seeking a job to someone who has a job to offer
- Help a neighbor bring in their groceries
- Make dinner for your friend group
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- Bring in the trash bins for your neighbor after trash has been picked up
- Send an email to a former teacher to let them know how they impacted your life
- Leave a thank you note in your mailbox for your mail carrier
- Give a flower to a stranger
- Buy a gift card to give to a stranger
- Ofter to be there for a friend when they are struggling with something
- Give bottles of water to people working outside on a hot day
- Buy a sandwich for the next person in the lunch line
- Leave a sticky note with a positive note somewhere public, like at a bus stop
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- Scrape the ice off the car windshield of the car next to yours
- Leave a positive comment on someone else's social media post, #ProsocialPost
- Put coins in someone’s parking meter that is about to run out
- Slow down to let someone merge in front of you in traffic
- Be on time (don’t waste others’ time)
- Hold the door open for the person walking behind you
- Make a double batch of dinner so that you can give a meal to someone in need
- Give directions to someone who is lost
- Give an extra big tip when eating out
- Practice compassion when someone else is struggling
- Be self-compassionate when you’re struggling with something
- Share veggies you grow in your garden with friends, neighbors, and family
- Become an organ donor
- Volunteer at the local animal shelter
- Bring dinner to a friend who's just had a baby
- Build a “little free library” box in your yard with books for everyone to read







