Not to sound like a 90s shallow prep, but how you dress can affect your self esteem, and putting energy into wearing things you actively like and projecting an ideal of yourself through fashion instead of seeing clothes as things you have to put on out of obligation helps.
It also can give you a sense of control over your appearance that you otherwise wouldn’t have lmao
I bought a cape because of this
this post is written in a humorous tone but this is the realest shit.
two years ago i wore baggy sweatpants and flip flops every day because i was depressed but then decided eh to hell with it and bought some black edgy emo clothes bc thats how i always wanted to dress but never got a chance to and it was only then that i realized that the sweatpants flip flops look was just keeping me in my depression funk. i didnt like the way i looked and i didnt identify with the clothes i was wearing and it only made me feel worse.
i then went through my entire wardrobe and got rid of everything that made me feel that way.
now i have multiple outfit possibilities requiring different levels of effort but on days where putting on clothes just seems like a project i just have to put on black jeans and a band t-shirt and i can still feel good about the way i look which is a really good way to start off my day.
i can not recommend this approach to clothing enough.
Can I just say this is the healthiest mindset related post I have seen on this sight and I want every single person on here to read this
THE PHILIPPINES WAS JUST STRUCK WITH CONSECUTIVE STORMS AND OUR GOVERNMENT IS DOING NOTHING TO HELP THE AFFECTED AREAS.
People are drowning on their own homes, floodwaters have submerged cities in Cagayan, Isabela, Bicol, and other areas. There are audio recordings of people screaming for help in the middle of the night.
THEY NEED HELP.
PLEASE CHECK OUT THIS CARRD FOR ANY INFORMATION ON THE SITUATION, HOW TO DONATE, ETC. AND PLEASE SHARE/RT/BOOST ANY POSTS THAT CAN HELP OUR COUNTRYMEN. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.
OF COURSE, this includes: Trans Lesbians Nonbinary Lesbians Asexual Lesbians Aromantic Lesbians Lesbians of Color Older Lesbians Younger Lesbians Butch Lesbians Femme Lesbians Closeted Lesbians Out and Proud Lesbians Christian Lesbians Muslim Lesbians Jewish Lesbians Lesbians of All Faiths
my singing voice is good for showers and mornings in the kitchen and drunken nights and lullabies for babies who need sleep and im okay with this
i think itโs silly to be ashamed of your art because itโs not in a museum and of your voice because itโs not selling out stadiums. there will always be people who enjoy and appreciate what you can do.
Idk why but this hit me really hard and Iโve been staring at it for a couple minutes.
Crystals, herbs and tips to help you fight laziness, procrastination and improve inspiration.
🔮Crystals for Laziness🔮
🔮Amazonite: provides inspiration, motivates holder to act upon their thoughts. $
🔮Apatite: motivates holder to act upon their thoughts. $$
🔮Fire Opal: inspires holder to be more ambitious, enhances creativity. $$
🔮Fuchsite: boosts productivity. $
🔮Herkimer Diamond: provides inspiration. $
🔮Red Rhyolite: inspires holder to be more ambitious. $
🔮Ulexite: provides inspiration, enhances creative skill. $
🔮Verdite: improves consistancy, boosts productivity. $
🌿Herbs for Laziness🌿
🌿Basil: improves focus, use as essential oil.
🌿Blue Violet: wear for protection and inspiration.
🌿Horehound: provides creativity and inspiration.
🌿Peppermint: stimulates the brain, boosts energy and creativity. use as essential oil
🌿Rosemary: brings clarity in your mind. use as essential oil.
✨Lazy Tips✨
✨Make sure you get enough rest, sleep 8 hours a day.
✨Do things emmediately. Need to take out the trash? do it now, procrastinating will lead to more procrastination.
✨If a task is too big or overwhelming, break it down into smaller chunks. Take breaks regularly.
✨Reward yourself when doing tasks. You can reward yourself with a snack or playing a video game or watching an episode of your favorite tv show every time you finnish a task.
✨Think about the consequences of not doing the task.
I just want to romance the FUCK outta a pretty girl. Let me woo you. Let me buy you flowers and playlists of songs that make me think of you. Let’s dance at 2am when we both can’t sleep. Let’s go on cute dates and all these fun things. Let’s fall in love and have fun.
