Trans people are just
So fucking cool and smart and funny and handsome and pretty and cute and I think it’s divine to reject your own body in favor of your own path in life and all of them are so fucking brave for being trans in a world that would beat them up and spit on their wounds if given half a chance and yet so many of them are proud of who they are and that’s beautiful in such a simple way and I love every trans person so much but then again I’m biased :P
Looking through the syscourse tag as a system and not knowing anything is awesome. This can’t stop me cuz i can’t read, literally doing what I want forever
the lesbian computer from portal was right. given the circumstances ive been shockingly nice
insane like/reblog parity on this post btw
Yay
who ruined it
It’s back and this is an edit so i didnt ruin it
(Which means you're giving folks who see your reblog permission to Ask Away.)
we DESPERATELY need an acronym to inquire about an "IYKYK" (if you know, you know) if you're not I the K (in the know) so I propose:
"I don't know, but I'd like to!"
(IDKBIWLT if you break "I'd" into "I would)
so if everybody could just pick this up so i can use it regularly that'd be pretty awesome. IDKBISWLT (i don't know but, i SURE would like to!) (for emphasis)) know what you think
our-queer-experience
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many sex averse asexuals like myself have heard the sentiment "oh, it's such a shame you can't enjoy yourself with sex :(" which is kind of annoying and wrongheaded. i've even caught myself thinking the same thing regarding people not being able to enjoy the aspects i do enjoy (i.e. written smut).
and it isn't an unreasonable sentiment! "it's a shame that you can't find enjoyment in something that brings me enjoyment" is a perfectly fine way to feel. it would be nice for people to be able to find enjoyment in stuff! enjoyment is cool, it's great when things make people happy!
while there is discussion to be had about the social conditioning that causes this sentiment to so frequently come to mind irt sex, i want to point out that it isn't exclusive to that topic. i came up with an example that i think some sex enjoyers might find illuminating in terms of how it feels to hear that sentiment as a sex averse person: bugs.
i love bugs. adore them. ive made them a part of my personality to a degree that people usually only do with sex in sitcoms. my enjoyment of bugs--caring for them, learning about them, interacting with them--is immense! and you know what, it does make me pretty sad that some people will never find them a source of joy in that way. it IS a shame when people can't enjoy bugs.
so if anyone who enjoys sex read that last sentence and shuddered... well, there you go! that's how it feels!
