i miss my son. #dukethomasreturnhome2me
i miss my son. #dukethomasreturnhome2me
kill the imposter syndrome in your head because not only is there someone out there doing it worse than you, they’re also using chat gpt to do it
Nothing I’ve read has changed me more than “you do people a favor by accepting their help” like I repeat this constantly to so many people because it’s true!!! People like to feel useful, they like to feel kind, they like to feel like they have an ability to impact people’s lives so just let them!! Not everything is a thing to be owed back — accept people’s kindness without making a competition out of it
I figured out too late in life that refusing random help will more often make the person feel unwanted or not trusted : (
This is true on the interpersonal level and on the community level. Your friendsgroup/family/house/affinity-group/street will thrive so much better when people accept each others help. When there is a regular back and forth of people helping each other and people accepting that help, you get a generous community where needing help is not stigmatized. Accepting help is an essential component of that. You literally can’t have a functioning community without it.
I’ve started telling myself “part of helping others is allowing yourself to be helped”.
They mad asf in the comments btw tho he’s right
They mad asf in the comments btw tho he’s right
"ACAB also includes--" if you aren't about to name someone that has the state-sanctioned authority to murder someone then no it doesn't








