Nicolle
BDSM Educator & Facilitator. Journalist. Author. Sexual Freedom Philosopher.
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A leading voice on the healing potential of BDSM. Lifestyle Dominatrix turned educator. Click to read The Sexual Freedom Philosopher, by Nicolle Double L, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
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Romanticize your friendships
Romanticize your friendships
Friendship as love deserves better than the word “platonic."
Your ice bath isn't so different from impact play
Your ice bath isn't so different from impact play
Are kinksters the OG biohackers?
Polyamory as friendship by another name
Polyamory as friendship by another name
Polyamory as friendship by another name
What is biokink?
What is biokink?
A leading voice on the healing potential of BDSM. Lifestyle Dominatrix turned educator. Click to read The Sexual Freedom Philosopher, by Nicolle Double L, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
How to be a better Dom: track her cycle
How to be a better Dom: track her cycle
Demystify your partner's period and unlock a new level of devotion
The Therapeutic Potential of BDSM
The Therapeutic Potential of BDSM
Seven years of personal experience, research, and interviews that I'm ready to share
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Men: Want to work with me 1:1?
This form is for men interested in 1:1 work with me to learn how to become better lovers, become a Dom or explore their submission, navigate relationship challenges, or find a partner (monogamy). My work blends intimacy, power dynamics, and personal growth in a grounded, embodied way. Our interactions are 100% confidential. This is a space of honesty, not judgement. Please take a few minutes to answer honestly. If I feel we’re a good fit, I’ll reach out to schedule a free discovery call.
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A Firefighter’s Battle for Mental Health Acceptance: "The hardest part is the stigma"
A Firefighter’s Battle for Mental Health Acceptance: "The hardest part is the stigma"
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Men in bubble baths discuss masculinity and mental health
Men in bubble baths discuss masculinity and mental health
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Masculinity and Sobriety (Episode 4; Season 2)
Masculinity and Sobriety (Episode 4; Season 2)
In Episode 4 of Season 2, we meet Theo. He wastes no time diving headfirst (the first question!) into the depths of his heart to reveal his struggle with add...
Masculinity and Polyamory (Episode 3; Season 2)
Masculinity and Polyamory (Episode 3; Season 2)
Masculinity and Depression (Episode 2; Season 2)
Masculinity and Depression (Episode 2; Season 2)
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Before Fatherhood (Episode 1; Season 2)
Before Fatherhood (Episode 1; Season 2)
Help fund Season 3 of Men Who Take Baths
Help fund Season 3 of Men Who Take Baths
Seeking bathers - SEASON THREE (filming March 2023)
Seeking bathers - SEASON THREE (filming March 2023)
The Garden of Earthly Delights
DO YOU WANT THE GARDEN IN YOUR CITY?
DO YOU WANT THE GARDEN IN YOUR CITY?
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From Retreats to Clinics, Here are all the Ways to do Psychedelics Today
From Retreats to Clinics, Here are all the Ways to do Psychedelics Today
Author Liara Roux Talks Sex, Psychedelics, and Her Spiritual Journey
Author Liara Roux Talks Sex, Psychedelics, and Her Spiritual Journey
Sex & Psychedelics: Owning Desire
Sex & Psychedelics: Owning Desire
Sex & Psychedelics: What does BDSM have to do with an altered state of consciousness?
Sex & Psychedelics: What does BDSM have to do with an altered state of consciousness?
Do Orgasms Cause the Release of DMT?
Do Orgasms Cause the Release of DMT?
Psilocybin Alters Answers to Big Life Questions: Study
Psilocybin Alters Answers to Big Life Questions: Study
Can MDMA increase women's sexual desire?
Can MDMA increase women's sexual desire?
Interview with Lamar Odom and Zappy Zapolin on ketamine therapy
Interview with Lamar Odom and Zappy Zapolin on ketamine therapy
MEN'S HEALTH: Why I Took a Bath on Zoom With a Bunch of Other Men
MEN'S HEALTH: Why I Took a Bath on Zoom With a Bunch of Other Men
SEXUAL DEBUT
Sexual Debut on a National Radio Station in South Africa!
Sexual Debut on a National Radio Station in South Africa!
Untelling the Myth of Virginity: Deconstructing Toxic Sexual Myths
Untelling the Myth of Virginity: Deconstructing Toxic Sexual Myths
Sexual Debut Awareness Campaign: FREEDOM CAKE SHIRT
Sexual Debut Awareness Campaign: FREEDOM CAKE SHIRT
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