To give you a clue about how serious bacterial meningitis is:
One of my colleagues reviewed a child with mild viral symptoms during clinic, I think around lunch time. They even got a senior doctor to look the kid over, because they were a little less experienced themselves. The child's observations (vital signs) we're normal and they looked good, just like a normal kid with the snuffles and a cough. No signs of pneumonia.
As every good doctor should, they told the parents what to look out for, and when to seek help if things changed.
The parents got worried that evening. They drove you the hospital but the child got VERY sick on the very short drive to hospital.
The child died that evening. They had rapidly developed pneumococcal meningitis. A condition we can now vaccinate against with the pneumococcal vaccine. When the case was examined, nothing was missed, the child had simply become rapidly and life threateningly sick within a few hours with an extremely aggressive infection with a high fatality rate.
Most experienced doctors I know have a story like this - or a story about someone who came into A&E (ED) mildly unwell but only developed actual meningitis symptoms during their wait in the department and could have died if they were sent home earlier.
Cases like this are why I try to drill into each patient when they need to go straight to A&E.
At a GP surgery we actually carry only a few drugs to give patients ourselves, because if someone is sick we call an ambulance and send them over to the hospital ASAP. The aim is to not delay sending people to hospital, as that is where the real intensive treatment starts.
We have defibrillators for cardiac arrest. Adrenaline for anaphylactic (life threatening) allergic reactions. Oxygen, salbutamol, ipratropium (for asthma or copd) and often dexamethasone (for croup) to help if someone is seriously struggling to breathe...and benzylpenicillin. The initial antibiotic injection for suspected meningitis. Because you do not wait for test results to treat it. You don't even wait for them to get to hospital, or even for them to get into an ambulance. You trat as soon as you suspect it. Because by the time it is confirmed, it is often too late.
It boggles my mind that there are people who think it's an unnecessary vaccine. Or who think that a couple less shots for their kids is worth risking an increased chance of developing meningitis.
If you can't find the AAP vaccine recommendations and aren't sure, please look to the UK. Look to Australia. Etc. The rest of us are still vaccinating. And make sure you're with a pediatrician or family doctor etc who believes in vaccines.