Talking to friends with inept parents is crazy. No wonder they’re like this if their parents kept fumbling
“I’m having trouble adapting to my adult responsibilities” well no wonder, nobody raised you 😭😭😭
Hot tip for future parents: you actually have to guide your kid to adulthood. Feeding them and waiting for them to grow up is not enough since they are not house plants. A little more thought and care is required.
for those lacking certain “adulting” skills, especially things around the house, check out:
^ there are tons of other resources but these two will teach you some personal hygiene, home or apartment repairs, easy recipes and basic cleaning techniques, even how to schedule doctor’s appointments
if youre a renter i cannot recommend the trans handyma'am enough, mercury is a lifesaver, and her channel and accounts are always accepting new questions
there are so many resources, a lot that you dont have to even ask for, just know how to look 🩷 much love
I saw some James Webb Telescope scientists give a talk and one of them said this was her favorite image because she had waited and worked 25 years to see this.
remember when you were 10 and you would hang out with your friends in order to Look At The Computer together like you went to their house and experienced the information superhighway together. and then leave
saying “y'all” is cringe UNLESS you are black or a white southerner
Nah. If you hear a word that’s useful you should be like “sure I’ll incorporate that into my idolect.”
Remember when “races and cultures must stay completly seperate” was the rightwing’s thing? Y'all gotta stop becoming so woke you start coppying the Klan’s homework.
I lived in Texas for three years and the y’all infected me deep. I ain’t abandoning it just because I’m somewhere else now.
Y’all means all as they say
Oh noooo y’all using a functioning ungendered second person plural in English is so cringe!
*insert gif of my eyes rolling so hard they pop out of my head and roll away*
you can never go back. this is your one life. you had a bad childhood and that’s it. you lost your teen years to mental illness and that’s it. you’re miserable in your 20s and that’s it. you just go forward
and now youre 30 and thats it. you just go forward.
