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Trans cognito-hazard

@nervoustragedyluminary

They/Them, 30s, No Minors -not a porn blog but I do occasionally rb adult related stuff , if I'm mentioning someone's shit behaviour or bigotry don't interact with them or harass them or contact them on my behalf that's fucking weird[derogatory] just block them ignore them or ignore me

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Some TERF DOGWHISTLES TO BE AWARE OF:

  • "sex class /sex based class" analysis that ignores and erases intersexism and transmisogyny in favour of equating trans women with cis men (misgendering)
  • "male supremacy" - and assuming (the small minority of) trans women who are awful to other trans people are that way because they are some kind of crypto MRAs and not just radfems and or assholes in their own right. Any harmful behaviour done by a trans woman is immediately assigned to "male supremacy"
  • "AMAB supremacy" just the same as calling trans women "male supremacists" & equating them to cis men and cis men MRAs - terfs seem to think that this is a way to get their "trans women are MRAs" shite past our BS detectors
  • "male socialisation" - especially when talking about (mischarecterising for grooming purposes ) intracommunity trans issues eg "trans women dOmInAtE and oppress trans men and trans spaces due to their male socialisation /experiences being raised as boys & trans men are demure in spaces and unwilling to speak up against the mean domineering trans women because of female socialisation "
  • "AFAB solidarity" - "trans men are my sisters (in the fight against the eevil trans women) " rebranded
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blood-drunk-defiance

"sex based class" also ignores transmisandry in order to equate trans men with cis women. kinda forever important to point that out that trans men are affected

Absolutely this too thanks for adding, they also erase enbyphobia /ceterosexism/exorsexism and Gnc phobia and butchphobia

Editing to add:

  • "transwomen" /"transmen" without the space because terfs don't acknowledge trans women as women or trans men as men it's a dogwhistle to "you're not really a woman /man" & an example of that "I'm not touching you I'm not touching you!" bigotry - the point is to put enough plausible deniablility for other cis people; "whoopsie I forgot the space Omg trans people are SO sensitive look at how they're making a big deal of not putting a space there I'm not even calling them subhuman[yet]?! " but imagine you see someone only ever typing "Lesbianwoman/en" instead of "lesbian woman/en" & going on to say stuff like "lesbianwomen are lesbianwomen & straight women are women"? it's that same idea that trans women can only be "transwomen" & not "trans women" or "women who happen to be trans /women with trans experience /history " it's a dogwhistle to the speaker about not viewing trans women as women and seeing cis women as "real" women. Ditto for "transmen" instead of "trans men"
  • TIM /TIF /TRA "trans identified male/female" or "trans rights activist" [Derogatory] mostly well known acronyms at this point that basically ammount to "you're a male/female but you iDeNtIfY as trans" - calling trans women "males" and trans men "females". "TRA" is an attempt to equate trans people with cis MRAs & comes from the false belief that trans rights are driven by cis MRAs in order to end feminism (they equate trans women with cis MRAs and trans men with cis women "honeybadgers" /supporters of MRA BS & claim that trans women are just pretending to be women in order to "steal/hijack" the feminist movement it's basically like the great replacement conspiracy but substituting cis women for white people who are apparently "in danger of being replaced" ) and some even claim that the existence of trans people is part of "the great replacement" & will veer into antisemitic conspiracies about Jewish people creating/controlling media/pornography in order to "trans" people to "destroy western civilisation /the family" this is usually where the terf to tradfem/alt-right pipeline comes in
  • DSDs or "disorders of sexual development" when talking about intersex people they will often refuse to use the widely accepted non-dehumanising term "intersex" & instead call them "DSDs/DSD males/females" because in terf ideology intersex people are seen as inherently "disordered" & any "correction" [Genital mutilation medical abuse and CSA] is thus justified as "normalising them for their own good" all intersex people are pushed into a category of either "male /female" & Intersex people who refuse and refute this categorisation are rejected mocked and harassed as being "part of the problem"
  • "genetic/biological male/female" - same idea as calling trans women "males" or "TIMs" & trans men "females" or "TIFs" with added dehumanisation of implying that trans people aren't "biological" cis women are referred to as "Biological/genetic females" & cis men are referred to as "Biological/genetic males" basically they mean "real women/men" but they think that using the words "biological" /"genetic" makes them sound more scientific in their bigotry and dehumanisation... See also 'bio vaginas/breasts'
  • "handmaidens" - any cis woman or trans man or assumed 'afab' person who speaks out against transmisogyny or for trans rights in general- equating allies of trans women to the MRA "honeybadgers" group with added sexualisation and completely misunderstanding the handmaid's tale because terfs love victim blaming survivors even fictional ones. In the minds of terfs the trans liberation movement is lead /controlled by trans women and zero trans men or trans neutrals - they erase trans liberation figures who are trans men transneutral and nonbinary and will assign them as either trans women or trans men & use their sexist stereotypes of "males/females" accordingly ;so a trans woman or people they categorise such who speaks out about trans liberation is presented by terfs as "entitled delusional angry violent male who is dominating & needs to be brought back in line" & trans men or people terfs categorise as such are presented as "hysterical delusional female who is betraying us& doesn't understand what she's doing and needs to be brought back in line" - this isn't the be all and end all of how they talk about trans women and trans men and other trans people they force into those categories just a simplified overview & as with everything there is nuance and contradiction basically the "point" is that trans people can't "win" it's like the Madonna /wh*re dichotomy"(I've seen it called the "baby/predator" dichotomy in Anti-Transmasculinity & transandrophobia discussions) depending on if they think they can "convert" you or not, they'll be more overtly hostile if they judge you as someone not vulnerable to their grooming & more likely to try infantalising & "lovebombing" you if they think they can "convert" you.
  • "compelled speech" /"asking me not to misgender trans people is compelled speech"
  • Afabmisogyny - terf attempt to twist discussions of transandrophobia and misogyny to being about "'afabs' are all oppressed by 'amabs' and all have a shared universal experience that amabs could never understand" they'll use this to group trans men and people they presume to be afab with cis women as a unified group being oppressed by 'amabs' grouping trans women and cis men together ad an oppressor class- enbies and intersex people are forced into one of these binaries/erased/ignored as usual in radfem rhetoric

nobody on this site is ever ever EVER going to top running a blog dedicated entirely to posting cute pics of sweet old dogs in a shelter for a year and gradually becoming one of the most recognized blogs on the website, then without warning dropping “i just want to get dicked down again =/” with 0 explanation and abandoning the blog. not deleting it, not explaining anything, just leaving the whole thing as a monument. fucking flawless posting. literally the best of all time.

Don’t forget the absolute cherry on top that was reaching out to the actual dog shelter to tell them their tumblr account got hacked, only for them to say, “We’ve never had a tumblr account”

my first initiative as prime minister will be to address rising sea levels by gathering up all the horses and having them drink as much seawater as possible before they die, and then we bury them somewhere dry to get rid of it

but only you can help

ah well that really throws a wrench in my plans then, doesn't it

i propose an alternative

why not cut out the middle man and just blow up the ocean

guys y'all know explosions produce H2O right?

I'll make it illegal for that to happen

MY FAV PART ABOUT SLEEPING INSIDE IS LESS LIKELY TO BE WET/STUNG FROM ELWMENTS

Not one, not two, but THREE mismatched lightbulbs.

1) fluorescent (painful vibes, good for deterring enemies)

2) LED pretend-incandescent (cozy work vibes, good for chilling + getting work done)

3) nothing (sneaky vibes, good for "getting the drop" on enemy in the dark

You have no consistency in your living space. No wonder your chakras are all fucked and you're fucked in the head also

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transyonic-iv

i feel like. the rejection to like. transandrophobia/transmisandry/antitransmasculinity/whatever we're calling it discussion. is not because it's an inherently flawed word for analyzing structural oppression, but because many people on this site, both cis or trans, trans or transfem, do not want to acknowledge that they have internalized and perpetrate this. critique of these terms and associated concepts often clearly are in line w the association of transmasculinity as simply , immature cis girls trying to benefit off of (trans)misogyny or making up new words to feel special. which regardless of what you want to call it is definitely emblematic of transphobic attitudes from cis ppl/ppl in power over trans ppl

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transyonic-iv

it's also like. the same hostility that discussions of transmisogyny often receive, especiallyyyyy when the word hadn't entered popular trans culture. regardless of your identity/position under oppression, you're not incapable of being bigoted or denying marginalized ppl the opportunity to create language and theory around the experiences under oppression

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transyonic-iv

i do def disagree with framing it being "more oppressive" than transmisogyny/antitransfemininity. that's ridiculous. but most ppl saying that every person who discusses antitransmasculinity must believe that, simply have not done reading into the actual theory created and have instead ran into ppl misusing/misunderstanding the concepts in a predatory sense. transphobia is extremely varied and often most popular transphobic discussions are focused on transfeminine ppl rn, but just because we can struggle in different ways, doesn't mean that transmascs necessarily "suffer more" than transfems and i dislike seeing ppl frame antitransmasculinity theory as being about that

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transyonic-iv

i feel like. the rejection to like. transandrophobia/transmisandry/antitransmasculinity/whatever we're calling it discussion. is not because it's an inherently flawed word for analyzing structural oppression, but because many people on this site, both cis or trans, trans or transfem, do not want to acknowledge that they have internalized and perpetrate this. critique of these terms and associated concepts often clearly are in line w the association of transmasculinity as simply , immature cis girls trying to benefit off of (trans)misogyny or making up new words to feel special. which regardless of what you want to call it is definitely emblematic of transphobic attitudes from cis ppl/ppl in power over trans ppl

in one way, governments regulating pornography is worse than the drug war because at least in the case of the drug war people can agree on what cocaine even is. There is no consensus on what pornography is. It would be like if the government decided to regulate "junk food" and then defined junk food as "food which appeals to the glutton's hunger".

theres been a lot of talk about the problems with shinigami eyes (the browser extension) lately but i think the funniest one is going to their github and finding out that for a brief period the wikipedia page for okra was marked as transphobic. like. the plant.

the woke mob got to my okra.... my fuckin okra....

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screenshot of the wikipedia article for okra, with a marked with a red link by shinigami eyes

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#not to be like snarky about this#but like#this was the obvious way that a browser extension for marking people as javing bad ideology was going to go wrong#and frankly I feel like both it and the whole “TERFs say these words” without learning what they believe#leads to people not actually being able to spot TERF rhetoric that doesn't use the buzz words or isn't flagged yet#like you don't need a browser extension you just need your own critical thinking skills and judgment#and sure you'll get it wrong sometimes#but I think you'll have a higher accuracy rate at spotting TERFs if you have knowledge of their worldview#vs just knowing their dogwhistles#because those are always changing#and knowing what they think will allow you to spot those dogwhistles regardless of how new they are#like you're better off going into one of the TERF tags (if you can stand it)#and finding one post with like 20-30 notes and blocking every one of them#they all reblog each other's shit anyways so blocking even a handful will pretty effectively cut you off from them as a group#(I mention a small note count because larger posts will have people refuting them and liking the refutation)#(smaller ones are all of them sitting in a circle nodding about how evil bad men are)#and when you do that you also get a good grip of the patterns and ways of thinking#so when you see a viral post with a reblog that's basically “men already know these things are bad they do them because they have no morals”#well you can clock that person as a TERF pretty quickly#we cannot be so eager to outsource our judgment - tags by @thetrekkiehasthephonebox

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