Hi, I'm Vivian, she/they, 23, disabled, chronically ill, transfemme, and autistic, fandom nerd blog (Avatar, TOH, Fire Emblem, SU, Undertale/Deltarune, Pokemon), also some aesthetic posts
artblog is @hiiiitsvivian
I genuinely hate that people can just reblog shit that’s like “trans men are just whining little bitches that want to hijack trans women’s REAL suffering and make everything about them” and still get likes and supporters
My three children could die from the cold
They are trapped in freezing conditions inside a tent that offers no protection—no heating, no proper blankets no safety.
Alma and Lama are burning with high fevers and suffering from severe illness caused by this unbearable life in the cold. I watch them shiver in front of me powerless while my heart breaks.
Every minute that passes puts their lives at greater risk.
Please, donate now to help us provide warmth, food, and urgent medical care for my children.
If you cannot donate, please share—your share could be the reason my children survive.
My heart is broken and my children are waiting for safety.
Please save them—I beg you don’t leave us.
Mosabs wife is also very ill - she needs your help to save her life!
Please my friends don’t leave us
I beg you—donate now and share the post
Your support truly makes a difference
My eyes are filled with tears… I went with my wife for medical tests, and we were shocked to learn that her blood count is very low and she is suffering from severe malnutrition. I couldn’t bear this reality, so I’m sharing my situation with you in the hope that someone will stand with us during this difficult time.
My wife is eight months pregnant and urgently needs medication and proper nutrition to maintain her health and the health of her unborn child.
Please support us by donating or sharing this post.
GOFUNDME _ Verified by @gazavetters (#53)
As a trans woman, why the fuck is one of my sisters for coming at me for showing appreciation for the trans men and trans mascs in my life who have helped me discover who I am.
I didn’t have a lot of trans women in my life growing up, but I did have trans men/mascs. The first trans person I ever met was a trans man, he’s my cousin. Trans men/mascs showed me that I don’t have to live with the life that was assigned to me. My highschool sweetheart ended up being a trans man and so did my first husband. Dating a trans man is what first got me to question my gender (Thank you @gnomeskillet for dealing with my dumbass, I miss your face) and it was a trans masc nonbinary person who finally cracked my egg. For as long as I remember, it was trans men who were there for me and helped me discover who I really am. Not that trans women didn’t help, they just weren’t as much as a presence and the men were until recently.
So when I share my experiences and appreciation and another trans woman, a friend no less, responds with “Is this satire?” and tells me I’m throwing trans women under the bus and I “need to talk to more trans women” it pissed me off. We are literally fighting the same fight, why does it matter that men are who taught me what it means to be trans? And I know this isn’t an isolated incident, I see so many trans men/masc talking about how they are treated like they somehow betrayed the community by finding their true selves or how a lot of the anti-men discourse hurts them as much as it does cis men (that’s a whole other rant about how “All men are evil” is bioessentialism and that’s terf talk) and all I can think is why? Those are our brothers and siblings. They deserve all the same care and compassion as we get, so why the fuck are we attacking them?
To my trans sisters who are participating in this hateful discourse, do better.
To all the trans men/mascs reading this, I love you and you are amazing. Thank you for helping me be who I am today.
“where are all the older transmascs and trans men?”
dead or detransitioned.
they were killed by their families. by their partners. by random strangers.
they killed themselves because they weren’t treated with respect.
they never got out of the closet because they live in a part of the world where people seen as women don’t have any autonomy.
they detransitioned because they had no support, because they were pushed out of community and safe queer spaces.
they’re so stealth nobody in their lives knows they’re trans, because they get treated with less respect when people know.
where are our transmasc elders? the community failed them, and now they’re an endangered population.
hi everyone, i would like to ask for your support for my sister and our family during a crisis. for over 2 years, my sister has endured an extremely racist and toxic workplace, until recently she decided, for her own sanity and health, to quit after a white colleage submitted a false report undermining her performance to her supervisor which made him extremely hostile to her despite her attempts to explain and request a review.
like many companies in australia, her workplace ran on a model of hyperexploitation of people’s international student visa status to use them as cheap labour pools and really work them to dust until they either make a mistake and are fired or resign on their own. despite her dedication and high performance, she was paid significantly less than her white colleages. to give you a sense of it, she was making less working overtime 12-9pm shifts 7 days a week than her white junior who had joined 2 months ago was making working 9-5 M-F.
as you can expect, this being the reality of internatonal hires created a very toxic environment among the international hires (most of them indians) and she was also relentlessly bullied and isolated even among her peers all this time, who would make fun of her homemade lunches, intellect, and anything that drew their attention.
this is not even the tip of the iceberg of how terrible conditions for nepali migrant workers gets in other countries but as you can see this is the reality for nepali workers even in an imperial core country that prides itself in its labour rights conditions. we have rent and electricity due this week, and my brother in law’s entire income will go toward clearing that, leaving us with nothing for food, hygiene or any other costs that might spring up for the 5 of us. all i can do is ask you to please donate to her kofi if you’re able to and help us get through this tough time: https://ko-fi.com/hiiij
i am open to commission. im good at research and have a lot of time because no one will hire me so if you want me to watch a video or read a book and summarize it for you, do some research, anything in exchange for money, please dm me or send me an ask we can work something out
Please support Gaza today and forever by finding vetted fundraisers by @gazavetters and @90-ghost.
I don’t have a job yet. I don’t have an official Paypal, Chuffed, and online money account. My parents aren’t sure whenever to send money to Palestinians. I can only reblog but I feel so helpless every time it doesn’t get enough reblogs. Please reblog any fundraisers I post before it is too late.
I write to you with deep pain and sadness for my mother.
She urgently needs to travel abroad to complete her treatment.
Until this moment, we have not been able to secure the amount needed for her travel.
All we need now is $1,500 so she can travel and continue her treatment.
I beg you to write something for her on your pages, hoping that someone among your friends might be able to help.
Please share this with your audience and donate whatever you can.vetted by @gazavetters (line #658) vetted by @nabulsi (here) and vetted by 90-ghost
help a black trans lady make rent quite urgently!
(need £180 by 15th Jan)
hi, i’m valerie, im a 25 yr old DJ, writer, live musician, events organiser and visual artist
i’m in the long and frustrating process of moving to norway from the UK and i am now short on rent!!! which really sucks, as i’ve been moving around a lot the past couple years and this is the most comfortable and easy to live in place i’ve had in a really really long time, I know there is stuff in the world going on much more warranting of your money, but I really need this, so please help me out?
I don’t have much to offer in return besides my art/work, which is linked above. thank you so much for reading this far!!! <3333333
anything helps, and if you can’t help monetarily, please share!!!
🎱paypal🎱
🤖revolut🤖
🐵monzo🐵