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AuDHD is so funny sometimes like what do you mean my hyperfixations/special interests will last for years on end or possibly forever but they will cycle out every month or two with absolutely no transitional period or warning. like i will think about the same topic every day obsessively for 46 days in a row and on the 47th day with no visible cause adhd brain goes "ok! bored of that now" and autism brain goes "dw i got something queued up for ya" and i blast into full blown obsession on some other topic whose mental file folders haven't opened in 9 months. brain's out here treating hyperfixations like a crop rotation. once the dopamine runs out it cycles in another one but once something's in the rotation it never ever leaves. last summer we brought in one from when i was 11. it's so funny to me but frustrating too bc like. i cannot stress enough my inability to predict or control this. or how completely abrupt and random it can be

EDIT: seems this is more common among ND people than i thought, and probably not limited to AuDHD specifically :] i was just describing my own experiences and i'm not an authority, but i'm glad i'm not alone in this<3

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i’m using Internet Explorer, i hope this posts quickly. happy new year 2011

She is dying. My little niece’s lips are torn open from the freezing cold in Gaza. Ignoring this could cost her life.

Her lips are cracked and bleeding, not just dry. She is too small to explain her pain, but she feels it every moment.

please share

PLEASE READ THIS

This is one of the comics I drew about Rawan’s life to draw attention to her campaign.

Life in Gaza is getting more uncertain as more and more sources say a ground invasion is imminent. The consequence is that prices are soaring again. No one is really sure what to believe right now, but regardless, it has an impact on their lives.

In the midst of this, Rawan tries to keep on living. Her skin condition is getting worse again, so she’ll go back to the doctor tomorrow if the weather allows it. Her older brother has started physical therapy to recover after the missile strike. All of that costs money, unfortunately.

Rawan is trying to get her engineering degree, and her only option is to spend her days in a café for a good internet connection, which costs her $50 a day. On top of that, she and her mother really want to get her youngest siblings (5 and 15) in school (meaning classes in a tent), but the price would be $100 a month each. Her sister never got to start school and her brother had to stop because of the war, even though he was very studious.

Please pitch in to support them if you can. Even $5 goes a long way and just sharing these posts helps a ton too 🙏

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the current state of fandom needs to be old yellered immediately. im loading up the shotgun as we speak

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venomvalley-deactivated20250612

this is the PERFECT addition bunny omg

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ok i'll bite. *just starts fucking biting you*

[ID: "Cold weather reminder. Do NOT plug space heaters into power strips or extension cords. Plug space heaters directly into the wall outlet. Power strips are not designed to handle the high current flow required by a space heater and can overheat causing a fire."

A photo is attached of a power strip with an extremely charred end. Part of the power strip's wire is also charred. End ID]

My husband, an electrician, told me I have to reblog this.

For clarification's sake, is this true everywhere? I ask because I know that different countries have different quality home electricity provision; American home electricity Ain't Great compared with most of Europe, for example. In Wales I have never heard of this being a Thing, but our electricity comes in 240V flavour, so possibly the higher current naturally avoids this issue?

My British husband (not an electrician but electrician-adjacent) says yes this is true in the UK as well - anything that uses a lot of power should be plugged directly into the wall rather than an extension lead

Good to know, thank you!

*gets up to replug space heater*

In what world is tall muscular man not conventionally attractive

We've all been down here too long. I truly think there's a chunk of tumblr's population that can no longer survive sunlight.

women will say “hear me out” and show u a photo of pyramid head and then tumblr users will go “this is a perfectly normal man and an ice cold take”

can not overstate that the reason hand-tailored items were so common 100 years ago is because every family had a dedicated home tailor called a "wife" who did 100% of the domestic labor do NOT romanticize a pre-readymade clothing life unless you're willing to go to bat for every individual having a secondary part time job as a tailor

it's correct to observe that clothing quality has gone on a downward trend and it's correct to say that clothing was higher quality before the advent of ready-made clothing, you're right to criticize ready-made fast fashion clothing but ready-made or modernity themselves are not the issue.

the problem with the wastefulness of the modern fashion industry will always be capitalist imperialism, the demand for people in the imperial core to have luxury trendy goods for abysmal prices at the cost of dehumanizing labor conditions, and the fatphobia that perpetuates a lack of size inclusivity. having perfectly tailored and constantly adjusted clothing is a luxury that was maintained through a slave labor force picking all our cotton and relegating 50% of the population to feminized domestic labor. you do not have the god-given right to be fashionable at all cost.

Ohhhh boy okay

Clothing history researcher weighing in here. Because this isn't completely wrong, but it's also not completely right

I want to first emphasize that I am NOT saying that clothing systems of the past that resulted in most people having custom fit clothing didn't rely on unfair labor practices. Because they absolutely did, from enslaved clothing producers at some times and places to dressmakers and tailors either being underpaid and overwork themselves OR relying on the underpaid labor of pieceworkers doing the actual physical sewing, often for a very long hours with inadequate lighting that destroyed their eyesight. That is 100% a real thing that really happened in these times and I would never try to erase it

That being said

The reason everyone had custom-made clothing for large spans of western European and colonial and post colonial North American history from the 17th to the early 20th centuries, which is what people are usually talking about when they say things like this, was because there was an industry around professionals doing that work

Dressmaking was a job. Tailoring was a job. Both of these things were often, though not always, different from being a seamstress or another person who did the physical act of sewing but notably not the custom cutting and fitting. That physical sewing was where you often tended to get the worst labor practices, though again not always, and where housewives frequently came into play. Some dressmakers and tailors catering to middle and working class clientele- because they had to have clothing too -offered services whereby they would cut out and fit the garments, and then someone in the household (usually the women, unsurprisingly) would it sew them together. Most housewives did not know how to make fitted clothing for adults at that time- you do see the rise of home tailoring and dressmaking to some degree around the turn of the 20th century, but that's also around the time you start to see ready-made clothing becoming more and more available. So even then, there wasn't really a shift to a model where most clothing was being made at home for all steps of the process

To the best of my knowledge, barring individual exceptions i.e. "well, my grandmother made all of their clothing!", there has never been a time within that span of years and those geographical areas where the majority of housewives were making custom fitted adult clothing from start to finish

Why does this difference matter? I think because the fundamental notion that the only way everyone can have custom-made clothing is to rely on unfair and/or coerced labor practices is flawed. Because, as with any industry, it could have been made more fair to the workers! People could have been paid better and had more rights! The unfairness was not a function of the custom cutting and fitting, any more than unfair labor practices in, say, a lightbulb factory are a function of the existence of electric light. Yeah, you could say that that wouldn't happen without the demand for electric light, but it doesn't mean electricity is inherently bad

Also, what I tend to see when talking about this kind of thing online is less "romanticizing" and more "historians answering the question everyone is asking, of why our clothing doesn't fit right anymore." to which the answer is indeed "standardized sizing"was it a perfect system? Absolutely not. Like I said at the beginning, it very much relied on unfair labor practices the way we still do today

But it's important to understand what it was and wasn't, HOW those unfair labor practices came into play, and to acknowledge that yes, that shift in how our clothing is made did lead to some of the problems we now have with it

(also, I feel like there's a fascinating conversation to be had about the politics of home clothing production especially in that changeover period a custom-made model to a ready-made model. Because many home dressmaking guides from the late 19th/early 20th century frame it as a sort of liberation from the necessity of consulting a dressmaker rather than an additional workload- but of course, those were aimed at urban and suburban women of the middle class. Women who could have the time to make their own clothing because they were outsourcing some, though probably not all, other domestic tasks to at least one servant. So, while there definitely were times and places throughout history when making clothing was a tiresome part of household obligations, there were also much more recent times when it was something you required a degree of, at minimum, free-time-related privilege to actually do)

(also also, I'm not going to lie, coming at this with the energy of "you should not want clothing to fit better because sometimes in the past, when clothing did fit better, there were unfair labor systems in play" is very strange to me. Like those two things are not inherently, inexorably linked)

You who have spent your lives studying laws and human rights, weep for yourselves, for all your laws are false.

I write these words with a heavy heart, as a friend of Abdul Rahman and his family.

The situation is beyond description… Fierce storms are battering the area, strong winds have torn down tents, and more than 100 tents have been destroyed so far. Entire families are now homeless, facing the bitter cold and fear every moment.

As if all this weren't enough, the bombing doesn't stop… suffering upon suffering.

Amidst this hell, my friend Abdul Rahman's mother is battling cancer. Her pain is twofold, her fear is twofold, and we stand helpless before her anguish. Treatment is urgently needed, and any delay could be fatal, but resources are almost nonexistent.

We write to you with hearts heavy with helplessness 💔 We need your support, we need your donations. Any help—even a small one—could save a life, ease a mother's pain, and keep hope alive. And if you cannot donate, please share this post… perhaps it will reach a compassionate heart and be the reason for saving a life.

I write these words with a trembling heart… My mother will be admitted to the hospital on Wednesday and will remain there until Thursday and Friday. We still don't have the funds for her treatment, which needs to be secured tomorrow. Time is running out, and any delay could cost her her life.

We live under bombardment and storms, without safety or a stable home, and on top of all this, my mother is battling cancer with unbearable pain. I see her suffering, and I have nothing to offer her but prayers and supplications. Please… help me if you can, for my mother's dignity means as much to me as her life. Don't let me down 💔 And if you can't donate, please share this post… perhaps it will reach a compassionate heart that can save my mother.

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