it drives me up the wall how pop psychology has led to people thinking trauma bonding is "people bonding in wake of trauma"
like no, two people bonding over the shared traumatic experience of losing a parent and finding comfort in each other is not a "trauma bond." a trauma bond is an often intentional act of abuse where victims feel overly attached to their abuser due to the cyclical nature of the traumatic relationship. can we please wrap it up.
hey did anyone hear a single discordant note in the leitmotif just now
bevydevIt's good that people on other social media think we're dead‚ stops them from coming over here ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯
Shhh!!! Pipe down or they’ll hear you and they’ll KNOW we aren’t dead!!!
while i hope the AI boom dies out i also hope we start acknowledging data center water overconsumption as it's own unique issue because like. it's not AI itself that harms the environment it's the hardware hosting it, right? same reason nfts and cryptocurrency were also bad for the environment. the root problem isn't going away so long as we allow big companies to continue hitching their wagon to the next big tech trend. i worry if they don't get stronger regulation we'll just be repeating the same issue whenever the next toy comes along.
I can’t speak for other social media webbed sites but I really enjoy how tumblr seems to just completely spin a wheel on whatever media is hot right now. Like yeah sometimes it’s a new show that’s big and actively coming out but also sometimes there will be a solid month where half my dash is Columbo memes. Defy authority. Get really into an book from the 1800s. Watch shows that haven’t aired in 40 years. Celebrate the anniversary of the Boston Molasses Flood. Become unmarketable
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