if the idea of forcefem is dysphoria inducing, then stop searching the forcefem tag and looking at the forcefem blogs. just block and move on. sending hate mobs because you have a personal ick against something is absolutely clown behavior. and also a strategy straight from the lolcow/kiwifarm playbook
the entire idea of forcefem, which is a reclaiming of sissification under a transfem lense, has always been about taking depressed ‘cis men’ and helping them through the terrifying and difficult process of becoming a cis woman.
despite the name 'force’, it has always been about giving the person being forcefemmed exactly what they want.
never has that ever been about forcibly detransitioning transmascs or trans men. why on earth would a kink about celebrating transness be something that upholds transphobia?
hi, i hope you dont mind, but your tags are too good not to share
As a CSA victim, fuck every single one of you trying to pedojacket Isuggestforcefem. You are not protecting children doing this. You are worse than cops, you are Kiwifarms style vigilantes on your way to ruin a trans woman’s life over lies and compete horse shit. You will never be someone safe or a good ally to any cause if your brain shuts down and enters murder death rage mode the instant you are given sub-google doc levels of evidence that some vulnerable minority is the ontologically evil thing you are allowed to kill.
unfortunately wanting to kill trans women is something a lot of these people have made intrinsic to their identity. i dont think i’ve ever seen such groups go after anyone who isn’t a trans woman so rabidly.
I’m down to $53 I need money for bills please help if you can, sorry if I’m being too demanding
hey so I could use help with school payments, I have enough until next month but it’s $778 a month and I’m not able to work until next month so like anything helps, I’m sorry I ask so much
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ok bill paid thank y'all
I know I ask a lot but if anyone could help with $133 bike payment so the debt collectors won’t hound me I’d appreciate that a lot I can’t work until next month but I’ll sell nudes for like $5-$10 a piece if anyone wants
hey so I’ve had to dip into savings for groceries and stuff and need to have about $220 more by the 20th sorry I ask so much anything helps
$588/$778
Hey what the fuck
I’m good for this month but I wanna get ahead for next month, I lost my job so anything helps, thank you all who’ve sent money and or reblogged, even $1 helps
I have enough to cover most of it but I need at least $324 by the 20th to do so, please anything helps I’m sorry I ask so much
i just greatly despise white queers as a whole they are so fucking selfish, racist, annoying, and don’t care about anyone that doesn’t match their features or skintone or any race they can’t fetishize to a dehumanizing extent.
I genuinely fucking wish you crackers would stop being selfish. this isn’t me wanting white genocide I just want white queer people to stop using black and brown people as props and tools while just treating us like lesser people and not caring because we don’t match your aesthetics. fuck you. if this rant makes you uncomfortable you can always unfollow lol
i think it’s important for white queers to hear this and understand that these words shouldn’t be said if you actually cared about making your spaces about equality or acceptance.
y'know what fuck you I’m making this rebloggable despite it opening up Pandora’s box to the worst responses ever because like, I don’t like making myself smaller for people who are so full of themselves.
In the end, our grandpa didn’t do what he did because he’s an evil pervert he did it because violating the rights of children is normal. He isn’t an evil pedophile, he’s an adult with power over me. I don’t think he did it for sexual pleasure, I just think that it was a way to assert power of his grandkid. Painting him as an Evil Pedo only hinders understanding why he did what he did, and stops us from fighting this system.
Ultimately, he has nothing in common with like, my friends who find lolis hot. To say he does is stupid and actively stops us from dismantling the problematic systems. The hurt my friends have done to children is not comparable to A Parent.
I don’t have a pretty story to tell. I didn’t get to “kill my local pedophile”. I had to live with it, he did that and got away with it, because that’s how these things work. Fantasies must sound so nice. In reality like many others he doesn’t have a secret stash of CP or whatever yall like to imagine.
I don’t want him to die. He’s my grandpa. I hate what he did but he’s still my grandpa. I internalized what he did as okay, as acceptable for a long time, because he didn’t fit the specter of the Pedophile that we’re taught about. He was just an adult with power.
So yeah. You can sit with that dream, and know that the only thing you do is make it worse for girls like me. The only way to fight CSA is to remove adults from power over children. “Pedophiles” are an obfuscation, and I hate what you people do to victims.
Look man. *I’m speaking to my audience when I say man*
An alarming amount of these people are children who are encouraged to lie about their ages in this discourse. You don’t need to engage or argue or grandstand with everyone.
I’m reblogging this to expose the number of notes (not that many when you about it) and to expose some logic.
You need to feel bad for these stuck people and not platform their voices.
How can I tell plenty of these people are children? Age regressing is not like, a skill. You still have to hone down the critical speech of an adult to simplicity. The more natural the simplicity, and the faultier and hastier the logic, I say the likelihood that the person is a kid higher.
Like. This post makes no sense and literally hate to side step a story about abuse to say its ethical conclusion is not bound in reality but its not. Its not.
Several testimonies in the notes are equally immature and uninformed. More isolationist than they are even capable of being communally accepted or damaging. People abuse each other for all kinds of reasons.
But adults get away with and are subsequently scrutinized and humiliated for the sex abuse of children because they cannot give informed consent. Ever.
I’d bet money OP is an actual child. I’d put every dollar in my accounts on it.
Free and completely ethical blocklist. They’ve blocked most of my friends already.
let’s break this down
open with “man” (but dw, I’m only classifying everyone in my audience as a man not you 🙄)
She can totally just tell when people are children. no bias, totally not a self-serving delusion, “we can always tell”
she doesn’t hate to side step a story about abuse, that’s an outright lie. they do it constantly. I’ve been rubbing their faces in it for days. not ONCE have any of them acknowledged the victims speaking EXCEPT to target Nyxie. here they are doing it again: only acknowledging victims when they can use it to hurt someone.
calling victims “immature”. so so quick to insult and dismiss people for a lack of maturity, I’m sure that’s really helpful to any children who might want to have their story taken seriously. horrible jackass.
“adults get away with it and are subsequently scrutinized” they know that they target people who have never hurt children, they have walked back allegations before. does that paragraph sound like she’s speaking with that in mind, or are they implying they’ve Always Been Justified.
I’ll take that bet, but only if you agree to it in writing. Do you want to take that bet, @mountpanthe0n? Please take the bet, you dumb fuck.
this is the degree of self-delusion that you have to operate under to keep this crusade going for months or years at a time. any reasonable person would be crushed by self-doubt, but they never doubt themselves at all.
and so it is easy for them to hurt people. it makes them feel good. identifying people and categorizing them as a Bad Person reaffirms their status as a Good Person. it’s playground logic, they bully people to make themselves feel good about their own insecurities.
frankly, it’s enough to make you wonder: how many children have these people hurt? they speak like they have a guilty conscience that they’re desperately running from. is that really a fucking coincidence?
“free and completely ethical”
(I couldn’t reblog mountpantheon’s post. So I’m relobgging this.)
So first off. I’m an adult. This is me retelling my personal story of abuse. I skip details because these are mine to live with. You are not owed anything about this story beyond what I choose to tell. Beyond that, I do not allow you to criticize this story, to frame it as fake.
The reality of the story is that he abused me. The reality is also that he was otherwise a sweet kind man. He just didn’t think of it as abuse. It was normal. It was normal.
Yall keep acting like he had to be a pedophile. Yall keep acting like I don’t know what happened to me well enough. The argument that I have to be a kid is a painfully clear rhetorical tool. You act like you gotta protect children. But you show your hand here. You believe that I can’t be trusted with how I understand my own story. You believe that I have to be wrong about the things that happened to me. And in turn, you believe I’m a kid.
You are not different from him. You are not different from all the adults in my youth who acted like I couldn’t know what happened to myself, like I couldn’t know myself.
You are not safe around children. By using “she’s a kid” as an excuse to hand-wave as wrong any uncomfortable story, you show how you see children, and I know how you’d act if a kid told you about being abused.
You are doing it right now. You’re seeing a story of abuse you think written by a kid. And what do you do? It’s uncomfortable to you. But if it’s written by a kid, you can just hand-wave that kid as unable to know what happened to herself.
But what if I was a kid. After all; you seem so determined to say that’s the case.
Do you feel Proud? Targeting children? Talking about how bad and dangerous they are? Is it protecting children to talk about the evil dangerous kids?
If I’m a kid, you are protecting abuse. By denying me the right to define my own story of what happened to me, by refusing to listen to victims, to what you think of as kids, YOU ARE PROTECTING ABUSERS.
fuck im 3 pages into this book and im hit with the line “The dirty little secret about growing up as a boy is if you’re not any good at it, they will torture you daily until you have the good graces to kill yourself”
when I was like 14 I used to reblog these posts on here that were like “YOUR 20S ARE NOT AN IMAGINARY RACE YOURE DOING JUST FINE!!” just to be positive towards my older mutuals even though i didn’t really get what they were abour and I’d be in the tags like “#so true!! #everyone does things at their own pace!!” and now im 24 I’m thinking back to it and it’s like Oh of course the imaginary race. Which I’m losing
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