ABOUT ME / MY KINKS / WHAT THE FUCK EVER <3

i go by vladmyr (or vlad!). he/it/she, 22, (greyace) bi / switch. i’m a goth rivethead obsessed with leather, tech, and the inherent eroticism in taking apart a body!

im taken, so absolutely no flirting/sexting with me. i will just ignore your message lol.

i tag violence as “violence fantasies” and snuff with “tw snuff”, other common tags are below in their section

my (main) kinks: sadism/masochism, blood + knife play, praise, degradation, bondage (!!!), free use, somno, cnc (moreso in theory), crying (others only), petplay, monsterfucking(??) but not in the werewolf kind of way but in the “literally becoming one with the machine / torn apart by an eldritch god” way

other beloved kinks i don’t post about (bc they are somewhat to completely unethical irl and are more niche, feel free to message me on/off anon about them though!)*: eye trauma, general face trauma (but mostly eye/mouth), and skullfucking (the object in eye socket version not the mainstream use of the term). I stay silly

anatomical terms i like / use: dick, cock, hole, pussy, tits (any other terms for chest are fine, I just don’t use them really though)

terms i DON’T like: clit / any variations (not my vibe)

HARD LIMITS: scat/piss/other bodily fluids besides like. saliva/spit, blood, and cum, incest, age play, detrans + misgendering, pregnancy/breeding with impregnation (i don’t mind following + interacting with people who are into it though + i do rb stuff about breeding/creampies without pregnancy as a part of it occasionally)

DNI: minors, terfs/radfems, cop supporters and cops, cishet men. also if you’re shitty or annoying i will just block you.

tags (usually i try to tag at least the cnc ones but if you see untagged stuff sorry in advance): cw cnc, cw somno, do unto others (dom posts), wanted unto me (sub posts), kittypost (petplay), myr speaks (non horny thoughts), myr eroticism (horny posts obviously), non-eros (serious / nonsexual posts), eros (esoteric hornypost)

God spoke to me but it was like a little ameboid or perhaps a nematode and it said “I didn’t expect this to go so far. I was the most complex thing at the start.” and so I drowned it in s alt

"i would kill a pedophile to protect my child" ok but would you teach your child how to say no? even to adults? even to adults you like? would you teach your child the words "penis" and "vulva" and then use them? would you let them ask questions about their body? would you answer them honestly? would you learn how to cope with your feelings when you talk about human bodies, so they don't feel ashamed? would you set a positive example for how you talk about your body? would you tell your child they don't have to hug or kiss anyone? would you tell your family the same? would you stand by them when they refuse to hug someone? even someone you know has never done anything to hurt them? would you let your child avoid food they don't like? would you let you child avoid people they don't like? would you believe them? would you sit in the discomfort of not knowing all the answers and not take it out on them? would you love your child the same if someone did hurt them? would you make them feel valued just as they are? would you let them talk to doctors or nurses in private? would you let them express their feelings? would you show interest in their life? would you let your child say no to you? would you help your child feel safe coming to you when they make a mistake? would you apologize to your child? would you believe them? would you put aside your anger to focus on what would make your child feel safe and loved? would you put your ego aside for your child? would you take your child's concerns seriously? would you listen to your child? would you believe them?

ohwyrmies sent:

sad, loaded ask warning. feel free not to answer, but here goes.

I am married to a trans woman who has given up on transitioning.

she has decided its too dangerous (we live in the southern USA), too expensive (again, USA), and takes too long, and that she's better off killing that hope than indulging it. I love her immensely. I don't want to see her suffer for the rest of her life. I want to see her comfortable in her own skin. but every time I bring up the possibility of going back on hrt she breaks down.

I don't know how to help her, and I'm so totally lost. please, if you have anything, I'm listening.

Hi, I’m going to reply to this ask honestly, brutally honestly, because I think that is what you probably need more than kindness at the sake of truth. I promise I am trying hard to help. So I recommend not reading it unless you’re in a place to take it.

Keep reading

Fuck.

This is too close to home.

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It is fox girl friday once more,

this week is a foxgirl OL who is more than ready to clock out and enjoy the weekend, if you wind up seeing anyone who looks like her, please be sure to keep it a secret. Kay?

Finally, may you enjoy the weekend and be sure to have yourself a happy fox girl friday!

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the original secret version, scrapped because it didn't feel different enough to be a secret, but it's still cute i think