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@staticsanctuary

genderfluid trans man • 25 • he/they robot thing who loves machines :] mainly into Homestuck and Deltarune may post/rb suggestive content, minors dnf 🔞

getting hyperfixated on a specific character is so embarrassing. here’s another picture of The Character on your dash… I know I just reblogged basically the same one but this one is moving

what they don’t tell you is that this will go on for a decade and every character that you like is just a different version of The Character

I wanna see some tags like “yes, naruto is the same as hannibal lecter both of them are gay sunshine characters with an evil side and a homoerotic cat and mouse relationship”

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

It's not a cure but you have no idea how many times this image has helped me with my OCD

i truly think that this recent trend of “if you relate to a post about a different identity than your own you are ~derailing~ and taking over the conversation” is incredibly harmful.

i recently experienced some pretty severe transphobic abuse in my workplace (children’s home) that included having food thrown at me, being called slurs, being told i was a pervert because i am trans. one of the managers talked with me afterwards and shared that he had had a similar experience as an Asian man. this wasn’t him derailing my experience, or talking over me, or making things about himself. he was communicating “hey, i know how it feels and how much it sucks. you’re not alone.”

THAT is what solidarity IS. i don’t know what it’s like to be Asian, he doesnt know what it’s like to be trans, but we both had a similar experience and we were able to turn a horrible experience into an opportunity for bonding and comfort.

stop looking at people’s attempts as solidarity as an attack. and hey, you never know - you could find an opportunity to grow closer to other people.

My resolution last year was to do one thing before bed that would make my morning feel easier, and that’s become a daily habit that I’m carrying into this new year.

Some nights even filling up the kettle and setting an empty mug out for my morning tea felt hard. But I was always thankful for it in the morning.

Other nights, one thing would lead to another, and I’d wake up in a clean house with everything ready to go.

And, on a rare few nights, the one thing that I could do to make my morning easier was going straight to bed and allowing myself to rest.

What stayed the same each day is that I would take a moment to think of what I could do for my future self and do it, even after a hard day. And I would wake up knowing that I had done my best and any effort—no matter how small—was a kindness to myself.

Honestly if nothing else it simply proves the point that even someone who is "non-medical transition" and still uses the pronouns associated with their assigned sex at birth is Too Trans for transphobes the moment they come out. We've already seen this with other nonbinary celebrities such as Demi Lovato but it is just so unbelievably grating to see people claiming that nonpassing/nontransitioning trans people are somehow granted cis privilege when that is very obviously not the case.

Please look me in the eye and tell me that Ishii and Lovato and others like them are somehow receiving male privilege, cis privilege, and passing privilege simultaneously.

Tired: Deltarune will end with Ralsei coming out as a trans woman

Wired: Deltarune will end with Toby Fox coming out as a trans woman

inspired: Deltarune will end with Gaster coming out as a trans woman

Seeing my friends around me no longer hide parts about themselves that I have known they used to carry a lot of shame and fear about has easily been the best part of 2026 so far. Live and love unapologetically and I'm not fucking kidding

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