ellmovy

gif version because tumblr lllooooves gifs and hates videos and also it looks cool like this!! i love hetalia 💖💕❤️💗💞💘💖💓💕

roskii

vamptits

the way feminism just died in recent years is crazy. a whole like 20 steps back!!!

barren-blossom

Big fan of these tags

mak-to-the-future

muppidupp

NEVER GIVE UP

wildragon

songsofwaterandnight

No, app on my phone, I don't want to edit it with AI. I don't want to generate with AI. I don't want to ask the AI. I don't want to make AI wallpapers. I don't want to rewrite with AI. I don't want t-

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mrdeath557:
“puppeteerextrodinaire:
“jaybleu25:
“peaches2217:
“oh-my-gosh-its-j0sh:
“dduane:
“mythical-illustrator:
“maggierobots:
“bbylilithian:
“fit-beach-tea:
“ fakesurgery:
“ bente36:
“ unclefather:
“can’t risk it
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THIS PIECE OF PICTURE...

modmad

segamascott

godisafujoshi

😩 i cant deal with this dawg

allpiesforourown

So you don't have to Google everything like I did

cythraul

Does the diagram have pixel-blurred genitals?

allesiathehedge

fleshymeatbag

I'm collecting them like pokemon

askfordoodles

catmask

i read the hobbit in 3rd grade and i thought it was really lame. however i liked bilbo baggins for some reason and i was fully convinced he was some sort of rabbit/mouse thing until i saw the lotr movies and was really, really confused

catmask

fiery-rat

Let's talk about college, failure, and ADHD (🚩 If this doesn't apply to you, please keep any dismissive & minimizing comments to yourself, please) A lot of people with ADHD start off doing well in grade school, middle school, and sometimes even high school. For these individuals, ADHD is often overlooked or missed because of the misconception that "if someone is doing well in school, they couldn't possibly have ADHD"

Fast forward to college. Those same people are now struggling with their new set of responsibilities, especially now that they're in a new place where they haven't learned to mask. They burn out quicker. Their performance drops. They wonder what's wrong with them. They start to second guess their major or focus at university, and they either change paths or drop out altogether. This might happen a few times before they're finally diagnosed. But even once/if they're diagnosed, they still feel like a failure at higher education.

Then comes the negative self-talk and self-gaslighting: "I'm just making up excuses." "I don't actually have ADHD." "I was never smart enough for that degree anyway." "I'm just lazy." And they actually believe these things they're telling themselves. And IF they get diagnosed & IF they decide to go back to school, there's the added pressure of, "Well my ADHD is diagnosed now, so I should do better this time" But the reality is, without proper accommodations AND treatment, all they're left with is self-imposed high standards.

AND THEN, even if they DO graduate, they minimize their accomplishments: "I only did well because I used accommodations." "I only graduated because I took meds." "It's an easy degree anyway." "It took me 7 semesters to finish, so it's not even a big accomplishment." If you read through this and relate to any of it, you're not alone!! It's HARD getting a degree these days. For anyone. But ADHD makes it so much harder. And I'll tell you a secret: It's OKAY to acknowledge that. And it's OKAY to get support. You are not a failure.

yeahh, this is my story (dropping uni for the 4th time, not being able to pass 1st semester, trying different fields each year)

tell me yours

toomuchdivergentformyneuro

can we talk about the shame that comes along with having ADHD?

the shame that hits you when you walk around your messy, cluttered room, knowing you don’t yet have the motivation or hyperfocus to clean it, even though you want to.

the shame that hits you when you retell a story for the thousandth time and the person you’re talking to gets bored or annoyed or confused by it, cuz you couldn’t remember you had told it before.

the shame that hits you when you ask someone to repeat what they’re saying multiple times because you keep forgetting or you just can’t hear them.

the shame that hits you when you forget something super important after you leave for a trip, and you ask to go back for it.

the shame that hits you when you know you’re overanalyzing something someone said to you, but it still hurts.

the shame that hits you when you snap at people who are just talking to you while you’re hyperfocused.

the shame that hits you when you realize you don’t remember jackshit about your life, you don’t have any memories, and you wonder what it was all like.

the shame that hits you when someone asks you to just shut up or sit still after you were just expressing your emotions, your happiness even, but were just a little too loud about it.

all the shame. over everything. we should talk about that all more.

Hyperfixation my beloved

See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

NEVER GIVE UP