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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
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To people who are desperately asking for fundz/donations on tumblr.

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USE THESE REDDIT SUBS INSTEAD PLEASE FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!

Hate Reddit if you want, but using these subs are your best chance. People gather in these subs because they have charity to spare:

/r/Assistance
/r/legaladvice
/r/RandomKindness
/r/Charity
/r/care
/r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza
/r/Food_Pantry
https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPetFood/
https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfChristmas/
https://www.reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/
https://www.reddit.com/r/homeless

/r/freelance 
/r/povertyfinance
/r/thrifty
/r/borrow
/r/gofundme

/r/depression
/r/familysupport
/r/transitions 

I never see anyone actually getting any significant donations on tumblr and to be honest, tumblr is the worst place to ask for assistance. Use it as your last resort, it frustrates me to no end seeing people begging for help, reblogging the same post over and over, the same types of posts over and over, to no avail, when people are waiting to help you on a different part of the web 
GO TO WHERE THE HELP IS. IF YOU WANT DIRECT ACTION TO WORK STOP WITH TUMBLR AND USE REDDIT.

PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF SATAN REBLOG THIS SO WE CAN START REDUCING THE AMOUNT OF DONATION POSTS THAT GET STUCK FLOATING AROUND THIS WEBSITE

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To all donation blogs, this might interest you.

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Hello, Autumn here! Its December and that means Christmas songs are in full swing and that means i cant listen to my second favorite Christmas song without explaining myself so in this essy I'll break down why I refuse to accept the new versions of "Baby its cold outside" and why I feel the original and media literacy is important to art as a whole

Why Media Literacy Matters: A Case Study of Baby, It’s Cold Outside by Autumn Grace

Public debates about older works of art often reveal less about the art itself and more about how we read media. Few examples illustrate this better than the recurring controversy around the 1944 song Baby, It’s Cold Outside. The song is frequently labeled “problematic,” yet this reaction largely stems from a failure of media literacy, specifically, an inability or unwillingness to read subtext, genre, and historical context together.


At a purely literal level, the lyrics present a woman who says she should leave and a man who encourages her to stay. When removed from all context and tone, this can sound uncomfortable to modern ears shaped by contemporary conversations around consent. However, media literacy asks us to go further than literal transcription. It asks how a text functions, what conventions it follows, and what cultural constraints shape its language.

The song is structured as a duet, not a monologue. This matters as both characters actively participate, they mirror one another musically, and escalate the interaction together. The woman’s objections do not halt the conversation; they prolong it. Each protest introduces another verse, another exchange, another playful negotiation. In narrative terms, this signals engagement rather than distress. Someone attempting to leave would disengage; someone flirting continues to spar.

Crucially, the woman’s resistance is directed outward, not inward. Her stated concerns revolve around reputation, neighbors, family expectations, and social judgment. She does not express fear of the man, but fear of society. In the mid‑20th century, women were often expected to verbally resist romantic advances even when they wished to accept them, as a way of preserving social respectability. Flirtation operated through coded language precisely because direct expression of desire carried real consequences.

One of the most frequently cited lines, “What’s in this drink?”, further demonstrates how meaning changes when cultural context is ignored. In the 1940s, this was a common, joking expression used to deflect responsibility for behavior that bent social rules. It did not imply drink tampering in the way modern audiences might hear it today. Reading it as such imposes a contemporary framework onto a historical idiom, producing a meaning the original audience would not have recognized.

Ironically, the least media‑literate reading of the song often strips the female character of agency rather than protecting it. When her wit, negotiation, and strategic language are recast as helplessness, she becomes passive in a narrative that was originally built on mutual awareness and consent conveyed through subtext. The song’s tension relies on the understanding that both characters know what is happening and that the audience knows they know.

This does not mean that modern discomfort is invalid. Cultural values evolve, and it is reasonable for contemporary listeners to prefer clearer expressions of consent. However, critique should be grounded in accurate interpretation. Condemning a work based on a misreading does not advance ethical conversation; it undermines our ability to analyze art honestly.

Baby, It’s Cold Outside ultimately serves as a reminder that media literacy is not about excusing the past, but about understanding it. Without attention to genre, performance, subtext, and historical norms, we risk flattening complex works into simplistic moral binaries. When that happens, we are no longer engaging critically with media, we are merely reacting to it.

In that sense, the controversy surrounding this song says far more about how we read than about what the song itself is saying.

This pattern of misreading is not unique to Baby, It’s Cold Outside. Similar debates arise whenever older media collides with modern values without the buffer of critical literacy. Films, novels, and songs from earlier eras often relied on implication rather than explicitness, particularly in matters of romance and sexuality. When audiences lose the ability to recognize implication, they mistake subtlety for danger and performance for endorsement.

Media literacy also requires an understanding of genre. Romantic duets, especially in musical traditions, operate under different rules than everyday conversation. Heightened language, repetition, and playful exaggeration are tools of the form. Treating such dialogue as a literal record of real-world behavior ignores the conventions that signal how it should be interpreted. The song is not instructing listeners on how to behave; it is dramatizing a social dance that audiences of its time immediately recognized.

There is also a broader cultural cost to abandoning nuanced readings. When we default to the most alarmist interpretation, we discourage engagement with complexity and reward surface-level analysis. This fosters a culture where works are judged by isolated lines rather than by structure, intent, and interaction. Over time, this habit weakens critical thinking, replacing interpretation with instinctive moral reaction.

Importantly, media literacy does not mean refusing to critique older works. It means critiquing them accurately. A well-informed critique might argue that the social norms depicted in the song are restrictive or that the need for coded language reflects an unjust system. These are meaningful discussions. Declaring the song predatory, however, bypasses those conversations entirely by misunderstanding what is actually being portrayed.

The persistence of this debate suggests that media literacy is increasingly necessary in an era of rapid, decontextualized consumption. Quotes circulate without performances, lyrics without music, and judgments without analysis. In such an environment, the skill of close reading becomes not just academic, but essential. Without it, we risk losing our ability to distinguish between what a work depicts, what it endorses, and what it critiques simply by existing.

Ultimately, Baby, It’s Cold Outside endures not because it is controversial, but because it captures a moment when desire, restraint, and social expectation collided in subtle ways. Understanding that collision requires more than a modern checklist of acceptable language; it requires literacy in how stories, songs, and performances communicate meaning. When we apply that literacy, the song becomes less a moral battleground and more a lesson in why careful reading still matters.


TL;DR


The controversy around Baby, It’s Cold Outside is less about the song itself and more about how modern audiences read media. When historical context, genre, and subtext are ignored, flirtation is mistaken for coercion and coded language is read as literal threat. Media literacy allows us to critique older works accurately rather than flatten them into moral misunderstandings, preserving nuance, agency, and honest cultural analysis.

I think about this post when thinking about baby its cold outside and now I think about it while listening to it thank you for the education reblog
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lightsaroundyourvanity

i finished my leverage og run 😳

in it's honour please witness the best fmv ever made for leverage and for the ot3 and for maybe any ot3 ever which i just learned can also be found on ao3

ekjohnston

Correct, this is the best one.

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@gemasivi

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Leverage is on Prime. I cannot recommend highly enough.

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leverage is also on youtube, fully legally and therefore unlikely to go away!

optimysticals

I am smiling so big right now.

These 3 are my ot3 of all ot3s.

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buzzfeed:
“adulthoodisokay:
“ alexandrovespartacus:
“ This still image was created by a Japanese neurology professor Yamamoto, and he told the instructions below:
If its not moving, or just moving a little, you are healthy and has slept well.
If its...
alexandrovespartacus

This still image was created by a Japanese neurology professor Yamamoto, and he told the instructions below:
If its not moving, or just moving a little, you are healthy and has slept well.
If its moving slowly, you are a bit stressed or tired
If its moving continuously, you are over-stressed

adulthoodisokay

great job copying, deleting, and reposting the original caption but again, this is a lie!

This illustration was created by Yurii Perepadia, a 50-year-old graphic designer and illustrator from Ukraine who told BuzzFeed News that everything written in the caption above is a lie.

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reblog I am sick I do not have the brain power to see it move
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writerlyn

The idea of “but everyone knows that” needs to stop.

I saw a post about someone chiding Millennials for not knowing about JKRowlings transphobia, and asking how it is at all possible that people can exist in the world and the internet and, you know, not know.

Which I mean, I get. It is so present in so many of my online spaces that it seems astounding that someone could simply be ignorant! It feels impossible!

But let me tell you a story:

I went on a girls trip with a bunch of friends. All of us are rather incredibly liberal and all of us are incredibly online.

One girl would not stop talking about Harry Potter.

At one point, another girl asked her why she was ok with supporting it, and she had no real clue that JK Rowling was at all transphobic. She had heard that she likes to support Lesbian causes and thought “oh ok cool!” And that was it. She was AGOG with the news and rather horrified.

I must once again emphasize that she was an incredibly online person. She’s a foodie and a restaurant blogger.

Later in the trip we were picking restaurants and I suggested one I found on Google, and she gasped at me. Actually gasped, asking how I could ever be okay picking that one.

The shock must’ve been on my face, because she then told me all of the shitty things that restaurateur does. He abuses staff. Underpays them. Fires them on a whim. Is known for being one of the worst people to his employees in the entire restaurant business on this coast.

And she was so shocked I had never heard of this. Because in her mind, I was just as online as her. And in her online world, EVERYONE knew about this guy.

So I think the moral of this story is: always approach the other person with some empathy. Even online people, even people you think MUST know about how bad people are, may not have heard. It may truly be just them being on a different sphere of the internet than you.

So be gentle, be kind when letting people know they might not have heard about the cancellation of XYZ person. Don’t assume that everyone knows all the same info as you.

By all means, let them know so they can make informed decisions, but being kind will go a lot further than attacking them for some info they might not know yet.

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patientno7

my humor 2016

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happy 3 year anniversary of wheeze man

rubinaitoart

Finally, the original has crossed my dash.

lavena

@strangezeroz welcome to tumblr where the app decides when you can be gifted with the sight of og memes, you cannot look for these yourself via the search engine, you won’t find them, you have to wait to be gifted them

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For those of you who might be new here, Tumblr has no algorithm, legendary memes are brought to your dash by mutuals like pet cats bringing you dead birds.

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hello metaderipple fans, this is all you're getting from me this year

reblogging on main because I have been dying for 2 days over this. it's so cute! wonderful and I love it very much like- thank you for casting madness on me a second time???? you already did that with metadede so- reblog metaderipple meta knight king dedede queen ripple metadede dederipple metaripple I love this and everything else you're doing awesome
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maccreadysbaby

things people do after having a nightmare that isn’t crying

  • struggle to catch their breath
  • grab onto whatever’s close enough to ground themselves in reality
  • become nauseous / vomit
  • shake uncontrollably
  • sweat buckets
  • get a headache

things people do to combat having nightmares if they occur commonly

  • sleep near other people so they can hear the idle sounds of them completing tasks
  • move to a different sleeping spot than where they had the nightmare
  • leave tvs / radios / phones on with noise
  • just not sleep (if you want to go the insomnia route)
  • sleep during the day in bright rooms

things people with insomnia do

  • first, obviously, their ability to remember things and their coordination will go out the window
  • its likely they’ll become irritable or overly emotional
  • their body will start to ache, shake, and weaken
  • hallucinate if it’s been long enough
  • it becomes incredibly easy for them to get sick (and they probably will)


add your own in reblogs/comments!

elumish

Other things I'd add to this:

  • Doing something to keep them from falling back asleep after a nightmare (going on their phone, opening their computer, etc.)
  • Put their back to a wall or otherwise do what they can to physically feel safer
  • Remind themselves that the nightmare isn't real, especially if it's recurring
  • Have microsleeps (extremely short/seconds-long sleeps) if they get sleep-deprived enough
  • Be exhausted during the day/increasingly exhausted over time
reblog for the character. nightmares
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androdragynous

I wish we lived in a beautiful world where people did not use things for evil because I wish I could send gifts to people without knowing their address or asking them to doxx themselves. because like. for example sometimes i will be like oh that's a cute guinea pig plushie I wish I could send it to my guinea pig mutual who I've never spoken to or interacted with because I think they'd like it. but I can't do that without being like, hi, I'm a stranger on the internet you've never spoken to, tell me your home address, I want to mail you an object. I just want to be able to hand a box to the post office worker and be like, hello, this is for guineapigmutual, and they will nod and say yep we know exactly who that is and they will take it and mail it and I don't need to ever know the actual address or name or anything. unfortunately things cannot work like this but I can dream

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