Getting really annoyed with all the reviewers on youtube who think they’re defending the show by insisting that it is good in spite of the sex, and that it would be just as good or better if all the sex were censored.
You want to praise Ilya for how good he is at pulling Shane out of panic attacks, but you want to erase the reason he got so good at it in the first place. Ilya would never have learned how to talk Shane down from his freakout at the awkward family dinner in episode 6 if he hadn’t put so much attention and effort into gently coaxing Shane out of his sexual comfort zone with his fingers in Shane’s asshole in episode 1.
Sex is a form of self-expression. Sex is a form of interpersonal communication. Sex is part of the human experience. Sexual stories deserve to be told.
Shane and Ilya’s emotional connection was built on a sexual foundation. Their sexual history is inextricable from their romantic narrative. Their love story is beautiful because of the sex, not in spite of it.
Censorship is bad, actually.
(via sauce-wizard)
















