What, you may ask yourself, is a toddycats. Well it’s this things
I went to a hockey game and he resents me for leaving him alone
Trauma dumping becoming a popularized term is just so fucking sad idk that’s one of the worst ones used casually obv there will always be people who say and ask too much from people who cant and don’t know how to handle it but it becoming some sort of pop psychology criminal offense is insane. like someone constantly oversharing is a huge sign something is very wrong you just need to understand that sometimes you’re not the one to fix it and can walk away if need be. Not talk massive shit and play victim ruining someone’s life because they told you too much about their childhood or something just keep it moving
So many people don’t want to admit they’re just uncomfortable and dislike someone because they’re uncomfortable and dislike someone. instead they have to moralize every single negative or unsatisfactory interaction so that there’s a victim and a perpetrator
