Erika Stearly
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Please tell me if I'm buggin
As you all know, fiance and I came to an agreement that I'll continue escorting until the end of June. I was originally happy with this agreement because it allowed me to continue working the way I want to until I met a financial goal and ideally find a job in the field that I'm currently studying.
HOWEVER my fiancé really struggles with my work (which is why I was hiding it from him when I knew he'd say it was okay if I told him) and wants:
- to know exactly when I'm working so he can mentally prepare himself,
- for me to not work this entire month
- me to only work specific days of the week, like only 3/7 days
- me to raise my rates (which is fine, but the reasoning was icky)
- to have a say in which weeks I can work surrounding special days and trips
- to pay me whatever I want to not work at all in June
Idk if I'm just a shit person but I don't like having these restrictions. Just let me do my job how I want to!! I wanna be able to go on tour and take last-minute or extended bookings but I can't. And he's been getting so paranoid whenever I leave the house. It was honestly much easier when I was lying.
I feel like this all makes me a horrible person, so please tell me if I'm being unreasonable or not.



