I'm so fascinated by people who seem to believe that analyzing media is somehow taking the joy out of it. Like. Do you not enjoy thinking? Does taking stuff apart and figuring out how it works not give you a hit of dopamine? And you get mad when you see people having fun in this way? What a sad, miserable way to engage with the world.
kinda hate when people say definitive things like "it will get better / you will find your people / etc" because how do you know? what if it's not true? what about all the people who never get to see it? Wishing and hoping for things that may never happen doesnt make me feel better for some reason. not sure how to look to the future and feel good about it. am stuck in the present and cursed by reality....
the yuri rarepair shippers shall inherit the earth
2026 will be the year of yuri
Disabled adults should get to choose to go to bed whenever the fuck we want, even if the support we need to do so is inconvenient or expensive.
Disabled adults should be able to go on nights out with friends until 5am then sleep in until the afternoon if we want to.
I really shouldn’t be turning down social invites because my care provider and local authority say I need to be in bed by 10pm at 26 years old.
daily moment of realizing just how different i am from 99.999% of humanity just by being asexual
Remember to always be unethically androgynous
calling binary trans people they/them once you know that those aren't their pronouns is not just directly misgendering those people. it's also indirectly misgendering the nonbinary trans people who do use they/them pronouns because it's removing the nonbinary gendering of personal they/them pronouns for known individuals. yes there are gender neutral ways of using they/them pronouns for people, and some people's they/them pronouns are meant to convey a personal gender neutrality, but there is also a very real non-neutral nonbinary gendered aspect to those words depending on the context and person as well.
people using nonbinary language to degender and misgender binary trans people is not a benefit to nonbinary trans people, nor are they the ones asking for such a thing. this behavior is done out of disrespect for trans culture and pronouns in general, and most of them fail to call actual they/them users they/them even though they have no issue these past few years with calling binary he or she exclusive trans people those all day and all night.
intersex culture is feeling nervous to call yourself intersex because too many people debate if your variation "counts" despite being discriminated for your visible traits
intersex culture is...
im sorry to hear that anon. no one should get to police the language you use for yourself. there are a lot of variations not "medically recognized" that many intersex people still consider an intersex variation
i am so fucking grateful not to be attracted to men it seems fucking terrible
prev post was jokey but it does make me absolutely raging that women on screen (animated and not but specifically animated in this context) are by default hairless as if no hair ever grew there at all. theyre also thin by default and anyone questioning why a woman has been designed to be so thin immediately is partaking in discourse, as if the idea that a woman could be like mid size or fat in animation is in itself political. armpit hair on a woman in art is political.. its so dire. in animation i dont expect individual leg hairs to be animated because thats just difficult (unless its a few little lines for texture or in a purposeful stylised way) but it is a conscious choice to design a woman without underarm hair, something almost all adults have. its so glaring to me at this point as a choice that was made in the design process. a man can have a full beard and fuck off fuzzy chest hair but if this woman doesnt have entirely waxed armpits grown men will get too scared. we've got to get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
