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And Baby Makes Three by John M. Gottman
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it was ok

This book contains some good info that I think will be helpful to most readers. The exercises and the research conclusions are very interesting to me. However, most of the research is outdated (the edition I had was from 2001, I believe). Some of the advice is just so glaringly sexist and obnoxious. Furthermore, the style in the book is very disjointed. I know there are two authors, but there were at least three written voice styles. The parts expounding research read like they were from a whole other book, while the anecdotal stories to support the point of the chapter were kind of poetic and lofty, in a corny way. Then there were the exercises, which are just lists usually.

I read this book on recommendation by people on Reddit. I'd say you can skip this book in favor of some more up to date book on parenting and parental relationships. I don't know of one, but I will be keeping my eye out. Lmk if you have a rec.
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January 23, 2020 – Started Reading
January 23, 2020 – Shelved
February 3, 2020 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Becca (new)

Becca Sharp I've wondered about this book. I've had another of his recommended to me. I would say that this topic is a desert- not a lot out there with real helpful information. But I can give you informal advice. ;)


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